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commentr/StutterJun 17, 2019
3 points

I tend to have blocks around my mother and some people. I'm not that comfortable around her. When I'm around my sister I barely stutter when I'm with her. When I meet new people it's a roll of the dic...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2019
8 points

Definitely my dad (and people new to me since I have social anxiety). He is the one who gave me the stutter and he used to focus so much on it when I was a kid, telling me to say it calmly and whatnot...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterJun 17, 2019
30 points

Does anyone have speech blocks/stutters more around certain people?

Does anyone have speech blocks/stutters more around certain people? I want to know if it’s not just me. Some people, I can talk to with great fluency, but others, I can barely get out what I want to s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2019
2 points

Not any more. It used to really bother me but I realised they're not always laughing at me per se, they're laughing because they're uncomfortable and don't know how to react. Once I realised this, t...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2019
2 points

yes I know exactly what you're talking about I experience blocks more than anything just like you do. pretty sure the average person doesnt know that blocks are part of having a stutter, they only kno...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterJun 17, 2019
27 points

Do You Get Angry When People React To Your Stutter?

Do You Get Angry When People React To Your Stutter? I've been stuttering for my whole life. It wasn't as bad when I was a kid (probably because I was more social as a kid and talked more). But as an a...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2019
2 points

We feel like stutter should not hold us back... But when we are in that situation where we need to speak in front of few people, we just feel like keeping quiet.....Even I felt like stutter should not...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2019
4 points

sounds like a lack of confidence type thing, maybe you just need to practice being more open with stuttering ! (it’s a lot easier said than done tho)...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJun 16, 2019
18 points

constant stressing about stuttering during schooldays

constant stressing about stuttering during schooldays i am always stressing about my stutter in school nowadays. It's like i stress about whether i will be made to speak in front of others in the next...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2019
1 points

Hey, it does sound like a confidence thing to me. Have you ever tried speaking in English with a non-native speaker? Especially one who may not be as fluent? It may be a starting point for you to prac...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2019
3 points

My stutter is tied to anxiety so if I substitute words and avoid saying words that I stutter on. Those words get harder and harder to say and my anxiety about them increases more and more so It's not ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2019
1 points

Good eye contact is key! If you look away during a block and feel weird, so will your listener...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2019
1 points

Something I try to do is portray as much confidence as I can. It's hard since I have very low self confidence. In my mind, I save my confidence for bigger moments. For me this helps because I speak mo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2019
1 points

Reading body language and facial expressions. Getting good at listening. While I do not have a stutter myself, I have read here some people have anxiety about speaking. I would think that it would ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2019
2 points

I'm afraid too, and I'm only 15 lmao! I don't even know how I'm gonna get married, and if I do have kids, I don't want them to suffer their whole life!...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2019
1 points

Some people do outgrow it, some reach a fluency level that is acceptable for themselves and therefore don't let stuttering stop them from life. It is different for everyone. For me, my everyday talkin...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2019
1 points

Okay, thank you. I'm just super scared because she is the only girl I have had an intense crush on....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2019
1 points

Hey man do you stutter? I am having the same problem as the man above, but I lack the confidence to do so. I keep thinking, "I'm gonna do it, I'm gonna sit next to her and talk." But guess what, I'm t...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterJun 14, 2019
3 points

advice??

advice?? most of my friends are participating in MUN and now i think i will be the only one left out. I don't wanna participate as obviously i have a stutter. What should i do guys?...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2019
2 points

The annoying part is that they don't look at you when you stutter? For me, this can be very disappointing and it can give me the same thoughts you have. But also, for me it's easier to talk with peopl...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment