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postr/StutterNov 5, 2024
14 points

How to deal with those feelings post stammer

How to deal with those feelings post stammer I really need to hear from each one of you , how to deal with those feelings of being : ashamed , confused , tired , depressed , hesitated, angry etc .. ? ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentEnergy & Biological RhythmsFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterNov 3, 2024
15 points

i got cooked

i got cooked i got absolutely cooked man, stood up for a speech on first day cause i felt like i was getting forced to speak on mun ( wasnt aware how muns work) and i stuttered after every 2 words tha...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
5 points

I'm sorry this happened ro you, I had a similar experience when I was close to your age. An adult asked me what my name was, and I replied K..K.. Kelly. Then it was "hi K..K..Kelly! Hahahah. " I told ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterNov 3, 2024
18 points

Stuttering has significantly reduced my joy / will of life no matter how much I learn to ignore it, it's a part of who I am and I have to endure everyday, people stare at me like I am an alien as I try to get my words out, words can't describe how hard life is with a severe stutter.

Stuttering has significantly reduced my joy / will of life no matter how much I learn to ignore it, it's a part of who I am and I have to endure everyday, people stare at me like I am an alien as I tr...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterNov 3, 2024
19 points

What to do when strangers mock your stuttering

What to do when strangers mock your stuttering I am 16M, 2 month ago i was playing football in the nearby field and then some other dude came to the same field and asked me if they can join me and i ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
3 points

I got used to ppl finishing my sentence's, lol i used to hate it but it its less frustrating than having to struggle to get it out, my wife/ex was very good at making me feel comfortable wherever we w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of LifeAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
10 points

i either want them to not express a reaction at all or finish my sentence if they can tell what i'm trying to say. i can't handle jokes tbh. i already feel like shit about my stutter and it really cut...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterNov 2, 2024
23 points

Just got embarrassed in class

Just got embarrassed in class We have zoom meetings with teachera from america at school sometimes And the teacher asked me to a awnser something I said i dont know, to 4 different easy things he a...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2024
11 points

Yes because stuttering is painful, struggling through a block, and then being embarrassed and feeling shame as you catch your breath. It’s a natural response. If you cannot control your speech, at lea...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2024
2 points

I now stutter very very little. It will never go, but it happens very very little. The key for me to reduce it was genuinely to accept it. I know that sounds like something out of a self help book but...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentEarly Concern & Onset
postr/StutterOct 31, 2024
0 points

Any support groups in Berlin?

Any support groups in Berlin? Preferably English speaking ones, I wrecked a presentation today and being a masters student + stuttering is so frustrating and embarrassing. I wanted the floor to swall...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2024
10 points

I hate this. Every time I enter supermarket and cashier greets me I awkwardly look away cause I can't say "Good morning" or "Good evening".....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2024
3 points

Even gentle mocking for me has always been a complete killer of any romantic situation. Never do it… Not to say you would, the fact you are here asking for advice tells me you never would :)...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2024
8 points

>naturally wanting to help Honestly and compassionate, finishing his sentences doesn't help. It would make me feel like my stutter is a burden to others....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2024
25 points

Just get him feel relaxed. Stress, nervousness makes it worse. Whatever you do…never ever mock his stutter. That’s the worst thing you could do....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2024
1 points

I think about this once a month but one time going to Starbucks and the guy asked for my name, and I stuttered and the guy said “did you forget your name?” I don’t even remember what I did after that,...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2024
1 points

I’ve never seen Tourette’s shown in a positive light ever. And there are movies that do show it in a neutral light such as a Kings Speech movie. But it is humiliating and painful to watch someone stut...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2024
2 points

I play guitar and piano. I have loads of hobbies. I have a sports car and a fast motorcycle. I have a great home theater and I’m well educated. I love books, stargazing, swimming etc. etc but I can’t ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2024
0 points

Yikes. I feel sorry for your husband. You sound shallow as fuck. This may surprise you to hear, but not everyone feels this way about stuttering. People may be attracted to different things than yo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2024
2 points

Yeah I stutter it’s not attractive at all. Having to go on a date and make small talk is a nightmare impacted my dateing life in a big way. It’s very hard to approach women and talk to them when you s...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance