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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

I totally agree, I generally do go for it anyways, sometimes it works. But there's an undeniable reality that timing/tone are a huge factor in communication, especially humour, and it rarely comes acr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
2 points

You know what I think, I think you should always go for that joke or always tell that story. Of course we have to focus on breathing and talking a little bit slower to people, but if your "friends" ar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

That's AMAZING! I aspire to also get closer to this point! Do you think that, growing up you were extroverted but your stutter made you appear introverted? Or, did people expect you to be introverted ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
2 points

This sounds like my story a little bit, would you consider yourself more of an outspoken person today? Or still more of a conscious person about your speech development?...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
4 points

I feel so much more fun and dynamic inside. I can excitedly share stores, tell jokes, and just generally have fun. I love words and write well - I want to speak like that too. But I can't, and everyt...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

I'm naturally extroverted and love social interaction. My stutter may get in the way, but when it doesn't, I have a great time. I went to a concert alone last month, and for the first time ever, I ha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. MaskingFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
3 points

My true personality is extrovert. I like to organize things, invite people to join me for all kinds of activities. Of course, with stuttering, I’m introvert:-(...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
1 points

How would you describe yourself, personality wise, now? And also, YOU CAN DO IT! One of my biggest goals is to do motivational speaking one day, all of the traits you just named off ARE who you are m...

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Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
4 points

You sound like me lmao! You seemingly have a very good spirit about your situation, I noticed you said "somewhat extroverted" do you consider yourself more of an introvert or an ambivert then? And I H...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
8 points

My true personality is somewhat extroverted, I enjoy talking and conversing with people, making friends, etc. but on days where I stutter like crazy it definitely affects my perceived personality. L...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
2 points

I love this response! Does your stutter hold you back in a 'I don't want to look stupid' kind of way? or a 'I don't feel like it today' kind of way? I definitely agree about being open with your stutt...

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Advice RequestsAuthenticity vs. MaskingPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
9 points

My true personality is still a goal. I have made so much progress and as long as you have a vision, it’s possible. Take steps, no matter how big or small, towards that vision and personality. Being op...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterApr 10, 2024
23 points

What is your TRUE personality like?

What is your TRUE personality like? I feel like I'm one of those people who were unfortunate enough to be given a stutter, but are still themselves. Like, I've been complimented on my ability to not l...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
1 points

Hi, you’re not too late ( : So glad you wanna get the recommendations I listed. Some of the key points I took from these courses are basically to not hold your expression back when you speak or act...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological Rhythms+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2024
2 points

Fluency may increase when techniques/tricks are implemented, but those are often quite difficult to maintain across all contexts. Ultimately, stuttering will never stop being a part of our lives, so r...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2024
3 points

I'm not bothered as much about hiding it as I am coming to terms with it, I think. Idk, it's all a different experience for me....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2024
6 points

From my personal experiences, this is a valid connection to make. But drawing this connection between confidence and stuttering also opens the door to a lot of personal mind games and self inflicted s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2024
3 points

I’m a line aircraft technician and have to discuss maintenance issues with pilots, flight attendants and/or anyone else involved. I understand you’re feeling about having a block. The reason I’m on he...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
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commentr/StutterApr 3, 2024
1 points

It’s a bridge over a pit of trauma and shame. Live to fight another day, with a less burdened conscience....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2024
3 points

So which is it? Are you thinking of faking a throat injury, or has it "always worked for you?" [As you said in another thread six days ago?](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/1bpk2q9/comment/k...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride