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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2020
4 points

I used to give presentations at my last job, and I'd start out with "If you missed something I said the first time, don't worry: I stutter so you'll catch it when I repeat myself." It disclosed my stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2020
2 points

Any word beginning with a vowel I have absolutely no chance at saying first time without stuttering. That’s not good since both the country and county I live in begin with a vowel, as well as my siste...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2020
2 points

Anything with an E is tough for me to say like "Eight" or "Evening" I normally get around it by saying something like "Straight Eight" or "Wonderful Evening" a word i find easy and can generally just ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2020
1 points

I’m so sorry to hear that man. I definitely know how much it sucks when you know exactly what you want to say but it just won’t come out. I don’t know if this helps but a lot of times I will change th...

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postr/StutterAug 17, 2020
10 points

For those who don’t have a severe stutter, are the words that you ALWAYS stutter on?

For those who don’t have a severe stutter, are the words that you ALWAYS stutter on? For me, I 90% of the time stutter on the word “can”. It’s my least favorite word and pretty much every question beg...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2020
1 points

I’d also recommend letting your teachers know, not so they could avoid calling you but just to let them know. I did that in college and it made me feel a lot better. I think I even announced it before...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2020
2 points

I recommend reading Lee Lovett's book and contacting him. He was a severe stutterer for many years, a successful attorney who has presented to Congress, self cured his stuttering, and coached thousand...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionPersonal StoriesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2020
3 points

going out if your way to talk to people will help out believe it or not. dont look at the bad side of going out to talk to people & stuttering. look at it as, “i gave it a shot and went out of my ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2020
4 points

To answer the question, you do not need to disclose your stutter during an interview. As far as how the interview went, it sounds like it went well! If you hadn't posted this question in this sub, i...

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postr/StutterAug 15, 2020
3 points

It feels like adrenaline to me but everyone's talking about dopamine

It feels like adrenaline to me but everyone's talking about dopamine 30yo male. Mom stuttered but grew out of it in high school. I also temporarily grew out of mine in early high school, but it came r...

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commentr/StutterAug 15, 2020
2 points

I really dislike fluency shaping. It is not natural fluency, or natural speech. Yes one may be able to speak fluently, but it is still labored fluency....

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commentr/StutterAug 15, 2020
1 points

I read it and found it interesting. But it's just another, more nuanced form of fluency shaping. Not for me....

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2020
2 points

Definitely introduce yourself as a person who stutters. Get it out in the open early so people are aware. I just started doing that (31 years old) and it takes away a lot of the fear. You'll still stu...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2020
2 points

If I could go back to HS (I'm in my 40's) I would own up to the stutter. Talking about it to others, gives it less power. High School was rough. It gets easier....

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2020
2 points

Usually I do but since this talk was only 1 slide and 5 minutes I thought I could do it in one take but I was so wrong lol...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Public SpeakingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2020
2 points

What trips me up is word blocks. I’m good at replacing a word if I feel a block coming. Asking a question is sometimes hard because you have to be specific....

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2020
1 points

THis is exactly the thing I have the most problem with. Do start a sentence with a vowel is next to impossible. If i try, I cant get a sound out and if I try to force it my mouth just contracts and ex...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2020
1 points

I had to record a 15 minute presentation for my ethics course and it took me 2 fucking days to be able to record the entire thing, and that's even with me recording each slide independently....

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2020
2 points

You are not alone. Trust us. EVERY single person who stutters goes through this while doing recordings. Do it the best you can and send it. Perfection is not possible. Fuck it. Sending an online hu...

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Public SpeakingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2020
1 points

Jesus christ it would take me like 15 minutes to record that even without stuttering...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Public SpeakingAvoidance & Substitution