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postr/StutterDec 11, 2019
3 points

Presentation Advice? 20 y/o college student

Presentation Advice? 20 y/o college student Hey! First time post here- little background info about me: I'm a 20-year old junior in college. I've had a stutter for most of my life, mostly blocks on h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2019
1 points

It helps to not focus your attention on the fact that you have a stutter. I know it sounds weird because chances are you think about it all the time, (everyone probably does) but if you instead focus ...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2019
1 points

was it in front of many people ? i'am scared shitless now of doing any kind of speaking in front of a group consisting of more than one person xD...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Audience Scale & Group SizeAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 11, 2019
13 points

I feel sick

I feel sick I just feel sick to the fucking stomach, i feel like im worthless. I moved to a new high school this year, and it sucks My old friends moved to the same school aswell and i see them make ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2019
1 points

Hey man, can I ask you how you bring the speech upfront to the conversation during interviews? I have always tried to hide my condition in these situations, but I realized that it may make me more anx...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2019
1 points

You're totally right. I know people don't care at all, which is frustrating that I’m still concerned with what they’ll think. Lol. I’ll take your advice though. Thanks for the reply!...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2019
1 points

Thanks for the kind words and yeah it really is frustrating to not be able to say my own name due to which I tend to avoid doing a lot of things because it's so embarrassing when you take time trying ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterDec 10, 2019
3 points

Struggling with using the phone at work

Struggling with using the phone at work I'm sure this has been posted about many times before, but I just need to get this off my chest. I'm pretty much at a loss with what to do. I've avoided using p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterDec 10, 2019
35 points

I feel stuck

I feel stuck I have been looking for a job for the past month and unfortunately I have not had any luck, wherever I go it's either that I'm too late or that I need to call in first. Today one of my ap...

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commentr/StutterDec 10, 2019
2 points

That's my main issue - the speech blocks. Mine tend to happen on specific sounds, one of which is what my name starts with so I can totally relate. It used to be super frustrating and I think the anx...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2019
1 points

This. Also, have you tried therapy / CBT? Personally, I dealt with severe social anxiety for years. I read all of the books, tried meds, herbal supplements and none of it did much of anything. What...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingSeeking TherapyAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 10, 2019
16 points

Looking for People I can video chat to.

Looking for People I can video chat to. Hi guys and girls. My first post on Redit :) So, let me introduce myself. Sergey, 35, live in Moscow, Russia. Married, have a 5 y.o. daughter. Been stuttering...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2019
3 points

This is a very interesting post. I'm 26 and in medical school and I've been considering asking my doctor for some anti-anxiety meds but she seems reluctant and wants me to do speech therapy. I think ...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAdvice RequestsMedication Inquiries
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2019
1 points

I'm the same way. I feel better about my ability to speak to strangers than people I know. I still stutter talking in general but it seems blocks occur more often when talking to my family. Shit sucks...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2019
1 points

When you have a panic attack, your body goes into fight or flight mechanism. Aderenaline gets pumping and your body and subconscious prepares for a life or death fight. Or to run away to safety. When...

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 9, 2019
29 points

I have 3 presentations this week

I have 3 presentations this week I have 3 presentations this week and I’m very nervous, my stutter and block has been very bad for the past week and I’m terrified that I’ll just get up there and not b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2019
2 points

Same here, Im 31 and seem to get worse every year. Today I got prescribed Valium to take on certain days at work. My stutter is also highly stress and anxiety-related so I started also started Zoloft ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Severity & FluctuationStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2019
2 points

Im in college too,although i wanna give you words of encouragement,this is my first semester and now im scared shitless....

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2019
2 points

Yeah, I was thinking it might be more connected to my anxiety than an actual speech disorder... When you get nervous, you definitely stutter more, and I think me using terminology that's new to me doe...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentStimulants & Caffeine
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2019
3 points

I'm similar. I've always had a stutter but it was never a huge issue other than presentations in my early life. Once I graduated college, it started to affect me much more. I don't think the stutter a...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation