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postr/StutterNov 29, 2024
14 points

I just want near fluency.

I just want near fluency. my stutter tended to fluctuate throughout my life between not-noticable and cant-get-a-sound-out, but the past two(?) or so years it's just been at the maximum, with it only...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterNov 29, 2024
12 points

Gave a presentation today... Didn't go well

Gave a presentation today... Didn't go well I just gave a presentation today... (it sucked) Sometimes very rarely (only once I think) a presentation went well (if well means I stuttered at the start...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterNov 29, 2024
11 points

Frustrated

Frustrated I am frustrated. I was pitching a startup idea and got stuck and got rejected. How will I handle people and team if I stutter Its like god has been unfair to me I am not able to talk with...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2024
2 points

I totally relate with your experience. And i feel your hurt! Especially that even your father denies it. It always leaves me with huge discouragement whenever i'm met with this kind of reaction from ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterNov 28, 2024
17 points

Why do people get so happy when I speak?

Why do people get so happy when I speak? My stutter is rather mild. Most people don’t notice it. However, to compensate, I’m just very quiet. I’m *the* quiet kid in class. I’ve had a few people get g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2024
2 points

This guy sucks. And I hate that he demanded that you speak until you stuttered, like you had to put on a show for him. I've never had anybody be weirdly challenging to me like this but I've had people...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2024
1 points

What a jerk! I’ve been dismissed many times due to my stutter. Also, some people don’t believe I have a problem. They’re ignorant and think I’m making it up. They’re full of 💩....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2024
2 points

Yes I am dying inside when I get so proud of myself saying a sentence without stuttering just for me to repeat it again....

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/stutteringNov 27, 2024
4 points

I feel that my life is not going in the right direction - stuttering

I feel that my life is not going in the right direction - stuttering I would like to start by saying that I have been stuttering for as long as I can remember, ever since I was a kid I have had troubl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterNov 27, 2024
19 points

Totally blew up today

Totally blew up today Today was my Canadian citizenship oath ceremony.It was a virtual call on zoom.During oath I was not able to not even utter a single word.After few minutes officials muted my s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringBlocks & Stoppages+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2024
3 points

You won't suffocate if you don't add (breathe). And you can't dictate what your breathing pattern and rhythm will be by that point. If you struggle with this, practice the presentation speaking on th...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesMindfulness & BreathingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterNov 27, 2024
5 points

Jaw pain/muscle tension cause?

Jaw pain/muscle tension cause? I’m new here 28f and have had a stutter my whole life, although it’s significantly better in my mid/late 20s. I can feel when it’s going to happen and when it’s going to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringPhysical TensionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2024
3 points

I feel you, i still do it sometimes too. After the "what ?", i'm not confortable once i get people's attention, or the eyes contact i don't know. My mind tells me i will look dumb to say it again. So ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 26, 2024
10 points

What are some of your problems/ externalities caused by stuttering

What are some of your problems/ externalities caused by stuttering It could also be habits Ill start.. zero communication skills, inability to make friends, low self esteem ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2024
3 points

Normally 3 out of 5 days of the work week are complete shit and I humiliate myself. I get it...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterNov 26, 2024
14 points

Rough day today

Rough day today I had a job today with a client I've had for about a year and she's never heard me stutter. I don't know her that well but I've always been comfortable around her and have never had an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2024
1 points

Hundred percent agree because I had a speech impediment as a child and all that trauma of being bullied because I couldn’t say my name really affected me. I’m now a grown woman and I am in school I do...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2024
1 points

Biggest thing now is make sure regardless of what degree the stutter is, ensure his confidence and self esteem aren’t brought down. I had a speech impediment where I couldn’t say R and I still have tr...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+2 more
postr/StutterNov 25, 2024
16 points

Covert stutter - misunderstood

Covert stutter - misunderstood Anyone else have a covert or interiorised stutter? 30 years I’ve managed to get by with avoidance and some deep rooted tricks . But lately as I’m getting professionally...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
7 points

You having anxiety and panicking over his stutter, will possibly make it worse for him. My mom freaked out and it made me feel really ashamed like there was something wrong with me. Also every family ...

Emotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentParent Emotions & Guilt