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commentr/StutterApr 26, 2017
2 points

Yes you're right.. I guess it depends on your level of fluency. I in no way expect everyone with a stutter to empathize with me here because I may not be feeling this optimistic if my stutter hadn't g...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2017
2 points

Sorry this happened to you, sounds like a big misunderstanding. High school is the worst. Next time maybe try openly stuttering instead of using fillers. Stay positive....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2017
1 points

Sure, i accept it in the sense that i don't care if people know if i stutter or not. But i don't want them to hear it. I can talk about my stutter, no problem. You actually heard my stutter, that's a...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2017
3 points

I'd rather take a cure that fixes it in the present! I wouldn't like to have never stuttered. Like you said for yourself, I think it was very important in making me who I am today, for better and for...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2017
1 points

In my eyes if you identify yourself as a PWS then you acknowledge/accept that you have a speech problem and the next step is working on it. I feel that many people do not accept/acknowledge that they ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2017
1 points

I have never accepted my stuttering, but to me it seems people who accept it are less anxious (if all) about it and thus improving it alot by "just" accepting. I 100% blame my stuttering for having m...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2017
2 points

.... you wouldn't want to speak correctly cuz you think you're a better person for it? It kind of reminds me of the deaf culture and how people are shunned by it if they chose to get a cochlear implan...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2017
1 points

I do agree that thinking that only your speech is holding you back is wrong but I do not agree with people who want to get rid of stuttering to be ''behind'' people who accepted it. I accept that I st...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2017
5 points

I know this is not the answer you are looking for but the fear that you describe is probably much worse than your stuttering problem itself. It sounds like you are anticipating stuttering and difficul...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2017
5 points

Not at this point. When I was in high school, I prayed for such a thing. But like you I am very proud of who I am and love myself now. Got plenty of problems big and small but I wanna be me....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 25, 2017
14 points

If you could make it that you never stuttered, would you?

If you could make it that you never stuttered, would you? I bet the average fluent person (and even average person who stutters) thinks that we wish we never stuttered. They might think that our liv...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2017
2 points

What's in a name? For people who stutter, it's a bad head space full of self-perpetuating thoughts fueled by fear and anxiety. My suggestion would be to intentionally stutter. My name is Christopher, ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureFeared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2017
2 points

The thing is you can't please everyone. If you can explain something that is relevant to your work with or without a stutter, you will be valued no matter what. It's your brain telling you that people...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2017
2 points

Be brave. Never give up. Life is beautiful, don't let the silly stutter ruin it. Be curious, friendly, open. Don't let stutter make you closed and bitter. Stutter gave us one great benefit when getti...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & CareerPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2017
2 points

Try not to overthink things. It's difficult I know and I still do it but try to be more open minded. The more you worry about every situation that you may stutter in, it will never change and maybe ge...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2017
1 points

I seem stuttering as a natural phenomena!! U should take ur stutter in a positive way because what you speak is worth repeating atleast.....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2017
6 points

and I have never heard such intelligent conversation about stuttering. Much like this subreddit, it's amazing to have so much common ground in understanding, knowing that everyone has been through so ...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyPersonal StoriesMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2017
4 points

I used to feel the same. It's only a big problem if you see it that way. I've come to love my genes and want to pass them on. And I have plenty more flaws than stuttering....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2017
2 points

Well thanks I guess lol To be honest, I'm still conflicted about showing stuttering as something to laugh at. On one hand, being made fun of because of something you can't control and is already maki...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2017
4 points

Hey congrats on that. It can be mortifying to order as someone who stutters - I remember getting told I couldnt get a drink at a bar because I was stammering in my order and the bartender thought I w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+1 more