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commentr/StutterJun 3, 2020
1 points

I feel you. I'm 22 and graduating uni next month and i can definitely say it was a hard journey. My stutter is really really bad and i have 0 confidence. I'm worried about getting a job and living a l...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2020
2 points

Yes I am confidence and comfortable around people, buy when in a group when all the attention is focused on me when I am talking, I struggle hard Friends have also said that I don't stutter when i get...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2020
2 points

No...this is tone deaf. Being black already equates you as the “criminal” according to the police. Now imagine stuttering on top of that. Before you even get a word out - they kill you. It’s a very sc...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2020
4 points

That's a scary thought. Cops usually don't have any type of training that deals with any differences or disabilities. There's a video of a cop shooting a kid who was black and autistic because he didn...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2020
5 points

17 y/o old girl here. Going to college next year and struggling with crippling social anxiety as well as my stutter. I’m tired too and sometimes I also feel like there’s no way I’ll ever make it. Just...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2020
1 points

Ordering food usually causes me stress. I often get a small drink or fry when I want a medium. I usually search for the easiest thing to say on menu that I like. I usually want a dr. pepper but usuall...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2020
1 points

How did cops escalate the situation due to your stutter? I personally have never experienced this, and neither have the other people I know who stutter....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2020
1 points

Why are you so convinced you would end up dead? Perhaps you'd get stricter tickets/ warnings. But there's nothing to suggest you'd get killed for stuttering. That's silly....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2020
2 points

For sure! I live in nyc, if you dont say what you want in 2 seconds they start to name random stuff on the menu for you to order, Ppl don’t have time to wait out here. But for sure I will do it next t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2020
2 points

I feel you. These things like ordering are relatively “easy” compared to talking with new people or boss. It’s not fair that you paid for something you didn’t want and I encourage you to say what you ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2020
2 points

A friend of mine decided to record a video of him, me and some others playing AI dungeons, and the goal was comedy. I had so many things to add, but I just couldn’t because my stutter gets so much wor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2020
2 points

Reducing the social anxiety will automatically bring down the stutter since its linked. Do you stutter when you are just by yourself? The more comfortable you get with other people, the more comfortab...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2020
2 points

I resonate with you, in social gatherings one moment I'll be extremely confident the next instant I stutter,it puts down my confidence and spoils the whole day Maybe accepting it and seeing it as a p...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2020
1 points

I'm sorry you're suffering. That's really rough and I'm sure it's extra frustrating being in a service job where you're seeing a ton of people all the time and for very brief encounters. I've been a ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2020
0 points

That's very common and it totally makes sense. Your stutter is highly influenced by the amount of judgement you feel and how much value you give others thoughts of you. A police officer or a boss for ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2020
1 points

I mean your brother is right about the "your behavior is just gonna make it worse" part, it depends on how you live it. You see, if you don't talk because you're too scared of other people judging you...

Emotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHome Support
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2020
3 points

I understand that for me I have more a problem while dealing with people of authority. With friends I don’t have a problem as much. I don’t yet understand why sort of thoughts go in my unconscious tha...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Power Dynamics & IntimidationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2020
1 points

\>> 1.How old did you start suttering and how old were you when you stopped stuttering? I remember stuttering ever since I started talking. \>> 2.Did you start talking better eventually...

Causes & VariabilitySchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
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postr/StutterMay 30, 2020
33 points

Memory issues

Memory issues Anyone else having trouble remembering basically _anything_ social because of the constant stress and anxiety that come with those memories?...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2020
1 points

I'm no doctor but that could have triggered it. The social anxiety. That's how it happened with me too. I've stuttered my whole life but it was never an issue. It became an issue only when social anx...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight