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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2025
7 points

How do you deal with interacting new people everyday? It's one of my problem, I get stuck whenever I interact with new people - my lips keep moving but the words don't come out. It's embarrassing and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
4 points

My work is customer service. I stumble when I speak with my boss. I failed recently in one of internal jobs hiring interviews in my work. I'm avoiding phone calls too....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
8 points

There’s been so many times I’ve thought about leaving this sub because of the types of posts and responses that are here. I mean it’s good for people to have a place to feel supported about something ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
2 points

Yeah it's insane. Especially because I stutter like crazy and have no issues finding people. Stuttering does not matter to people, it really doesn't. And if on the rare occasion it does, it says more ...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
2 points

You sound very frustrated! But also maybe you would benefit from looking into some information written by professionals in the field, lots who also stutter too! Also, pretty sure the DSM talks abou...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
0 points

It’s not the stutter that’s preventing you from getting women, the amount of bitches who find it endearing is suprising, and if u think it’s some major blockade of finding love, you’re wrong🙏...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
-4 points

> but I basically never see similar posts about finding a partner addressed to women Men and women have different problems and stuttering tends to amplify them. It’s harder for men to get a girlfrien...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
2 points

I don’t think it’s a misogyny problem as much as it being more common in men, and with traditional gender norms being more negatively skewed to men with a stutter opposed to women as men are supposed ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
12 points

Oh I completely understand, im a man and some of the mindsets some of these guys have make me feel uncomfortable as well. There too caught up in how others perceive them instead of being happy with ho...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
1 points

There most definitely is an air of misogyny and even a couple of incel like ideologies that come through here often. I think most of it boils down to a lot of the guys in here feeling like they have i...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
24 points

I'm always hesitant to comment or post on anything because I see comments that like to blame women for not dating stuttering men. As a queer woman, it's hard to relate to any experience like this beca...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
1 points

I don’t disagree with the idea that stuttering is influenced by your mental state. I wouldn’t say “stuttering is caused by anxiety”, but we mostly stutter in the presence of others. A lot of us are fl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
2 points

Yeah there's the whole "my feelings are valid and fuck you for being happy" crowd and then there's the "how tf will that attitude help?" crowd. I wonder if it's common across all disability subs?...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
-3 points

I think the real misinformation is the outdated current information. Experts say that it can't be stopped, but what about the so called 75–80% of children who stutter and naturally grow out of it? If ...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterOct 23, 2025
0 points

Every fluent speaker should be cursed to spend 2 years of their adult life as a stutterer.

Every fluent speaker should be cursed to spend 2 years of their adult life as a stutterer. If these people were forced to be a stutterer for 2 years of their life, I think (or at least hope) that the ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
0 points

Certain aspects of stuttering are generally “all in the head”. If you order coffee (or any order similar low stakes situation) and when they ask for your name, you instantly look away, get a panicky ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
2 points

I think it's a matter of surroundings. I know about rich people, but they're somewhere else and don't bother me. On the other hand my friends' discussing their relationship or asking me why don't I fi...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
1 points

Anything that distracts your mind from fear or takes your mind off the anticipation of stuttering will usually give you temporary relief. This is the main reason why stutterers are sometimes misled b...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Cycles & RandomnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
1 points

I try to learn languages. French is my mortal enemy. Something about that language makes me stutter way more than in any other language. Still stutter ruined a lot of things for me and caused me so...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
3 points

Yep. Been there, done that. Anxiety and second guessing ourselves and being hypersensitive to people's reactions is a major factor in stuttering. I've found that addressing this anxiety to be far, far...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringAcceptance & Pride+2 more