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commentr/StutterJul 5, 2020
40 points

As much as I understand, don’t do this. To put it blunt, your stuttering won’t leave you and your inability to confidently speak to other people will only degrade your mental health and make your stut...

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commentr/StutterJul 5, 2020
1 points

I completely relate. I'm too scared to talk. im too scared to go out. but I genuinely like seeing new faces and going to new places. I keep telling myself to behave like an introvert. I try to convinc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2020
2 points

I really wanna surround myself with positivity. but I guess I've attached too many emotions to my stutter. I've complicated things for myself and honestly idk if I can get out of it....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2020
3 points

ik. I once went for this coaching class. I wouldn't speak a word. I wouldn't even smile at any1. even if they say something funny. I would just sit by a side. people thought I hated them all and that ...

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commentr/StutterJul 5, 2020
4 points

Absolutely not my experience. My stutter was so mild through most of high school that most of my teachers didn't know I had it (and I was a vocal, know-it-all kind of kid), so there was no "negative f...

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commentr/StutterJul 5, 2020
4 points

The mental part aggravates stuttering but is not the root cause....

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2020
3 points

In my experience, people don’t care. We are our own worst enemy when it comes to stuttering. The more you put yourself out there, the easier it gets. Be confident. If you stutter, just soldier on an...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2020
1 points

I’m more prone to get panic attacks and to just completely jack up my speech. Perhaps it effects my anxiety then worsens the speech...

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 4, 2020
2 points

Guests coming over

Guests coming over I have guests coming over tmrw.they're family. but my anxiety is crippling rn. I really don't wanna stutter in front of them. I would just feel so small if they give me those sorry ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2020
2 points

I can relate to the i'm not fluent in any language part, i "speak" 3 languages but it's more like i'm limited to only understand them because of my stutter. My stutter varies a lot like, i have a mode...

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commentr/StutterJul 3, 2020
6 points

It turns out most people don’t care about stuttering. We are our own worst enemy when it comes to dealing with social anxiety....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2020
31 points

"No no c'mon say it !" *proceed to slutter on every single words of the sentence while the person is looking at you with an awkward look*...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2020
3 points

Yeah it’s realllllllly stressful for me and my whole family looks at me everytime expecting me to stutter or halt after a word and it’ll be really awkward 😭...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentCycles & Randomness
postr/StutterJul 2, 2020
2 points

Anyone up for audio chatting?

Anyone up for audio chatting? As the title says I was wondering if anyone would be up for audio chatting on discord or Skype. I’ve been stuck in the mud lately regarding my stuttering, performance anx...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2020
5 points

You’re absolutely right. There’s a part of me that doesn’t want to accept and bring light to the fact that I even stutter. I try and hide it so much. I block constantly and it’s kind of obvious, but ...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2020
2 points

Every 3 weeks you sometimes struggle to say words? With the information you've given, it is a very mild and infrequent speech dysfluency. The low frequency of your speech dysfluency is not enough to q...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2020
8 points

I have a master's in public health where I had to work in a lab and present my research all the time. Now I'm in medical school where talking is an essential component. In school I'm constantly scar...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2020
1 points

I know where you're coming from but I don't think it should stop you. I purposely went towards jobs that required me to communicate with people even though it was difficult at first. By doing so it re...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2020
12 points

I’m in my 30s, my experience is that it’s hard to get a job offer, but once in the job I excel. I don’t interview well, at all. Surprise group interviews are the worst. I’ve cried during an interview ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 1, 2020
28 points

What’s your experience getting a job with a stutter?

What’s your experience getting a job with a stutter? I’m 18 and I’m at the point where I can’t really avoid getting a job anymore. I’ve always avoided it due to social anxiety, and my stutter which go...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment