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postr/StutterApr 5, 2025
17 points

How I Became A Stutterer :(

How I Became A Stutterer :( I'm just want to share my story as a stutterer. Because every stutterer has his/her own unique story. Before that, hello, I'm a 45yo Chinese Indonesian man. And I've been a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2025
2 points

Fellow highschool student here. Here’s some advice: - I go through the exact same thing saying my name. My best advice to you is to never avoid those situations. Don’t run from things that you know ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling OthersSchool & Academic Life+2 more
postr/StutterApr 4, 2025
320 points

Cried in bathroom today

Cried in bathroom today Forgot about outside world, my parents humiliate me inside the house because of my stutter as If I do it intentionally. They got me some ayurvedic immunity boosting medicine th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2025
2 points

You're gonna get some weird/funny comments for sure, but the type of girls you want an actual long term relationship with aren't going to really mind. I once asked a girl out in high school and she re...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomancePersonal StoriesStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterApr 4, 2025
8 points

Family ruined my life

Family ruined my life Hi guys I've been stuttering for my whole life(21 years) i got stutter cause of family abuse since my childhood I thought it was birth defect but My older brother confessed to me...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2025
1 points

At the end of the day it doesn't matter, I got over the fact that I stuttered when I was around 17, 23 now. unfortunately its something I do but I still have a loving gf, good paying job and I'm happy...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionFamily Support & ConflictHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2025
5 points

I'm the same age and I understand the comments, side comments and snarky things people say especially in school however its ur choice to actually acknowledge the comments or insults. Because I guara...

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Stigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
7 points

Sounds like you and I have very similar stutters. I’m approaching 30 and all I have to say is own it and don’t think less of yourself. We’re not less intelligent than others, we just need a bit more s...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
2 points

this is common give urself permission to stutter / struggle / block say what u want when u want and keep moving forward (in ur actions and ur speech) put urself out there , face ur fears , dont hol...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
2 points

My mother used to tease me and say: “stop stuttering you look like a retard” when I was growing up instead of looking for therapy or help. Hurts and I remember to this day… Thankfully my stuttering ha...

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Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
5 points

Btw i am from Pakisan I am so unlucky to have stuttering in Pakistan...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
postr/StutterApr 2, 2025
9 points

Hey there i stutter i am 15 year old

Hey there i stutter i am 15 year old It all started when i was 5 or 6 and it never stoped. i have been bullied my whole life by my friends family and relatives too I and when i was 10 we moved to a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
1 points

I don't know why my stutter start when i talk with someone and if i read and talk with my father or brother it reduce soo much can someone help me find the cure of it i really get bullied by my family...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Cycles & RandomnessStigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
1 points

Thank you! I’ll keep these in minds. And I’ve been dealing with these people my whole life, so I’ve found how to not be too affected by it. Then again it’s the norm to make fun of stuttering for whate...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
0 points

Man, I hear you and can imagine the shame, but remember the bravery it took to show up and deliver the speech in that very challenging situation. Their meanness doesn't have anything to do with you. T...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
4 points

1. F them! 2. Let them know - everyday, and especially speaking in public is me flexing my courage muscle. Put it back their faces. 3. Might feel shitty, but reality, you’re a f’n hero....

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Frustration & AngerHope & MotivationStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
1 points

you're lucky, for me both mom and dad mocking me since little days. what to do except crying alone in my room...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
4 points

I'm really sorry you're going through this. Having stuttering sucks at times, but it's one part of who you are, just like being gay. Mean people will be mean about everything. Try to be kinder to your...

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Validation & EmpathyStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
1 points

Stuttering does not receive the attention it should and the fact that we go above and beyond to hide it does not help our cause....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
6 points

Sorry you had to endure this, people are soo inventive and for it to be your own family really cuts deep. Even with me my brother told me a couple years ago that our aunties were making fun out of m...

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Stigma & BullyingFamily Support & ConflictValidation & Empathy