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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2023
2 points

Excellent to hear that you are choosing voluntary stuttering! I found it was soo helpful for me I prefer to use the term “ignorant” when there’s probably some level of malice. That’s just me tho...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2023
1 points

Sometimes letting yourself stutter does wonders. Our stutter usually gets worse when we're anticipating it and we're doing everything to stop stuttering. This can create tension, and ironically this m...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2023
1 points

This is literally the truth, the answer. But it’s hard to find a safe space to stutter, you know? At work, around friends, it’s hard to let yourself stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2022
2 points

Hey Super, Here’s what’s always worked for me! When my stutter was at its worst, I would volunteer to go first! Sound ridiculous, right? Here was my logic: I’d rather go first so I wasn’t thinkin...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2022
1 points

Pre-pre-pre-vent the blocks even more by doing a fun disclosure using this theme! And then, try *talking on exhales*. inhales are likely to be shallow, which directly increase the fear. Anyways, i...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureFluency TechniquesStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2022
1 points

I had a severe stutter from a boy age 5 to about age 30. Then one speech therapist suggested it would help me get through a block if I pr-rrrr-olonged the fff-first sound. That helped a lot. ...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
postr/StutterDec 28, 2022
7 points

HELP Desired... ideas for public stuttering experiment

HELP Desired... ideas for public stuttering experiment Hello! As some of you may have seen my recent posts, I like to do social challenges talking about stuttering. I'm looking for some creative i...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposurePublic Awareness / Media
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2022
3 points

From early childhood, every person who talks has occasional repetitions and prolongations. At some point, we perceived that others thought poorly of us for having them. The physical effort to try t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2022
6 points

I had a very similar “life” for about a decade before I learned how to be able to say what I wanted. Some ppl in this sub will tell you to embrace your stutter or just “don’t care what others think”...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling OthersFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2022
7 points

You´ve got intelligent thinking but I think you´re going too deep into it. I can relate. I admit it can be a paradox. Thinking about something else can hijack your attention though. Your thought doesn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 26, 2022
1 points

If this is too much, do brief voluntary repetitions to yourself in the mirror. Work up to a phone call to a store, and then more. Make sure to make eye contact and begin speaking on *exhales*....

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterDec 26, 2022
2 points

I double down on my voluntary repetitions. Takes less than a day to get me right back to about 1 block/week. I’m a preschool teacher, so I’m talking all day long to 40-50 different people....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2022
8 points

This is a great idea. While some people won’t have the courage, even a smaller version of this with friends would probably do wonders. Without the exposure, we tend to assume the worst about others an...

Coping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2022
1 points

My strategy, which comes directly from SLPs who also used to have disabling stutters, reduced my blocking and avoidances about 95% and I sometimes completely forget that I’m a PWS. There are the ...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2022
2 points

Great to hear :) Maybe start by having a heart-to-heart w Google where you let ‘em hear lots of repetitions!...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2022
8 points

Yup others try to deny our struggles. In my case I would block and made weird facial expressions on most words. Getting out of my comfort zones was one thing that definitely helped me improve my speec...

Speech & StutteringCoping & Advocacy
Physical TensionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2022
5 points

Exposure therapy can definitely help but I agree it’s really hard for a pws. Most likely if they will get stuck and stutter in the beginning. But after doing it for a while it’s going to build more co...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2022
3 points

I fully believe comfort zone therapy can help. But it's very hard to do and takes a lot of courage....

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2022
2 points

Crazy though, you would think because we know it isn't a real person we wouldn't have that response. I'm done hiding from it I just want to confront it now. Whatever it takes. Thanks for the comments....

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2022
2 points

I think that viewing it as a thing that needs to be cured is what is stopping us improving. We keep fighting it. For me the fear of blocking or stuttering is far worse than when it actually happens. B...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment