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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
1 points

Hey, I recently started using chatgpt Voice Assistant, and I think it's great. It's getting new updates, so it's going to be more natural using it. One thing I liked about it is that I stutter with ch...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
2 points

>"Don't rely on thoughts/feelings to move the speech muscles" This is my attempt to explain the above phrase more clearly: Acknowledge (and understand) that there is nothing that we need to increas...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
2 points

>*"Don't rely on thoughts/feelings to move the speech muscles"* This is my attempt to explain the above phrase more clearly: If we feel a certain amount of *fear of failure*, or we don't feel enou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
2 points

You said: >"*I'll try working on a framework these next few days with detailed explanation and execution. I feel too much is lost in translation as I explain it or offer tips now.*" Thank you! Yes I...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
1 points

It's a very strange correlation. Recently, I went 100 days without masturbating, and between this final period of 100 days and the days when I masturbated frequently, if you asked me which period I wo...

Identity & DisabilityMeds & Substances
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionHarmful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
2 points

That's really very interesting!!! I'm wondering if I should read research papers on: Stuttering & voluntary tic inhibition? (to gain more insight) [https://www.google.com/search?q=%22voluntary+tic+...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainSituational VariabilityAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
1 points

A girlfriend told me it's cute, in case it can help you! Some others told me that it makes me more accessible, like being able to show our vulnerability upfront instead of hiding it like others. Simi...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
5 points

I tried to deconnect my brain from what I want to say. To try to explain it, it's like trying to recover the feeling that we have when talking for ourselves like doing a monologue. To try to disconne...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
6 points

Hey... I know these feelings, I understand and I'm sorry for what you're going through. You are worthy of connection, support and apprechiation and you are stronger than you might realize right now. T...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
7 points

I used to beat myself(metaphorically) up whenever I had a block and didn't force it through at the fear of making a weird sound. I thin that is okay as well. A mindset shift is required. We need to un...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
2 points

You said: I continued telling myself and convincing myself that I can speak fluently when alone, and eventually I succeeded and this fluency (when I'm alone) stayed with me until now. Yeah I agree I...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
10 points

It's uncommon but not unheard of. I knew someone who started stuttering at 20. Will it go away to stay forever? Who knows. What I'd recommend is not to focus on that. What I would care about is unders...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
1 points

I experience that we (almost) never speak about strategies to unlearn stuttering here on Reddit. But.. Why not? **Confidence and techniques:** I think that the main problem among redditers seems to...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
1 points

You need to accept it, to be able to work on it properly. One does not exclude the other. Accepting my speech issues helped me immensly in getting to know myself better....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
2 points

Absolutely - I've found that socially dismissing my stutter, in practice, working towards the speech being fluent/flowing even if the speech includes stuttering, This can look like being nonreactive t...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
2 points

100% this. Communication is more efficient for everyone involved when I don't stutter, so naturally my goal is to not stutter, but when I do it doesn't ruin my entire day. And when I'm not weird and e...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
2 points

Comparing to school: If a child in 4th grade sees a small harmless ant (or other insect) in his classroom, then he will most likely stay in the classroom and continue listening to the subject that th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
2 points

>Question: how to get rid of the self-imposed rules that I've setup? Answer: I should not feel that I have to reduce or increase certain "technique or emotions" Good question. I think that we should ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
1 points

> *So the thing I should try is to "not try to impose certain rules to myself"* hmm.. you said: 'So, we should not try to self-impose rules, right?' --> I think that your question can be more specif...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
6 points

accepting it and embracing your authentic self actually makes you stutter less a lot of the time... research ARTS therapy (avoidance reduction therapy for stuttering)...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking