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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2021
1 points

This are a helpful list and I'm currently in a pretty high flying fluent phase after being a gibbering mess last year. I have my own little list of things to do. Just a note though there's no panacea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight
postr/StutterMay 9, 2021
5 points

feeling frustrated

feeling frustrated hey everyone this is my first post here. I've been stuttering since I was in high school. I had some speech therapy when I was in college. lately my speech has kind of gotten a l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2021
8 points

I'm not a therapist. But after receiving speech therapy (over 20 years ago), I certainly recognize his blocks and his techniques. I'm actually surprised with the number of times I've observed him dro...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnticipating Stuttering
postr/StutterMay 8, 2021
37 points

Starting a new job this week at a cinema and have an interview for a retail job this week!

Starting a new job this week at a cinema and have an interview for a retail job this week! Okay so I had a zoom interview for a cinema job and I got told I aced it which I was happy about. I just trie...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2021
2 points

bit late here but i feel like my perspective is nowhere in the comments: german is my first language and that is where i developed my stutter (at 5 y/o). i started learning english pretty early on and...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2021
7 points

as far as i'm concerned and have been told in speech therapy these movements develop over time and are used in an attempt to get the word out. i've heard that it's not really effective though. so not ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Physical TensionAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2021
2 points

It’s so hard to talk about something that other people cannot understand. The anxiety of ordering or asking for help, and the shame of fucking up a simple sentence. The best thing that has got me th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMay 8, 2021
13 points

Writing certain letters?

Writing certain letters? Anyone else get stuck on certain letters almost like a verbal stutter but while writing? Growing up bilingual I had strong stutter that was more prevalent in one language tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2021
3 points

I have a masters. Thinking about doing an MBA. I do pretty well presentations though because I feel detached. It's in personal conversations that I do worse....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic LifeEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2021
5 points

Wanting 100% fluency is what will keep you struggling. But if you really want 100% fluency you could sing, whisper, or become robotic every time you talk....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2021
2 points

Everything you said is right, I love the way you put that. It sounds a lot like if I were talking to Jordan Peterson haha. With that said, so much of what you said is right when it comes from an alr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2021
2 points

In theory I agree but in the real world this analogy breaks down. Communication is a essential part of working relationships and everyday interactions. If you cant communicate fluently and effectively...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMay 8, 2021
31 points

How do you feel?

How do you feel? I feel as if I don’t belong anywhere. I’m not meant for anyone or any thing. That being stated. I know many of you were able to overcome this and have productive lives with support ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterMay 7, 2021
3 points

Anyone else in a masters or higher education program? Any good advice for helping getting by with a stutter

Anyone else in a masters or higher education program? Any good advice for helping getting by with a stutter Starting my MBA on Monday. Looking forward to get my masters but not looking forward doing p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2021
1 points

I am not *ape-with-keyboard* (awesome user name btw) but since I stutter too I also don't qualifie for any career in which I have to talk a lot or have customer contact. So I have to find a job with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2021
7 points

This is so bizarrely true. I have a hard time with words that start with “st” and “sp” so just accepting that I’m gonna have to break down the sounds and maybe seems a little weird helps me to press t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2021
1 points

I'll buy the book. Just very briefly, how did the book help you? Because I've seen so many blog posts that say to speak VERY slowly or sing and what not. But in real life, everyone knows that's imprac...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2021
2 points

That's maybe the worst piece of advice you can get. Talking spontaneously actually helps you to be fluent. Of course, it takes lots of practice to be able to be spontaneous....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating Stuttering
postr/StutterMay 6, 2021
11 points

I'm a 21m who wants to get a sales job. How do I succeed at this kind of job?

I'm a 21m who wants to get a sales job. How do I succeed at this kind of job? I'm really struggling right now in my life. I've always wanted to be an entrepreneur and own my own company. Part of me ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2021
1 points

i wish i could confront everybody 😂 but I am also more fluent when I curse or I'm angry, I think I should be angry all day to make it productive (?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight