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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
4 points

I think yes, because we can only improve our life to best, if we will do something about it, in this case overcome our fear, I think this is possible, we just need some time, brain will start to think...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 8, 2021
19 points

So fucking frustrated pt2. Need advice

So fucking frustrated pt2. Need advice This was the rant 2-3 days ago. Part 1. This is just a rant. I had to read aloud in front of the class. I stuttered like crazy. Then after a few lines, I began...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPreparation & Rehearsal+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
2 points

Stuttering Adult here with a history of multiple succsssful jobs, including retail and giving tours as well as working at Disney World briefly, with multiple relationships and an engagement, and lots ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
4 points

I’ve been able to develop good comedic timing that works with my stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
2 points

So many speech therapists and generally people in my life have told me to just accept it, and it always baffles me how they say that to my face and not realize how terrible it sounds....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
3 points

Amazing advice but I find it hard accepting my stutter. Maybe because it’s the fact that iv just turned 18 iv got to deal with finding a job, relationships and adult stuff....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
1 points

Thank you so much! Yeah, I felt I had to take the lead and get it over and done with by telling him at the beginning before he commences with the interview questions as I wanted him to feel assured th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
2 points

That only makes my stammer worse to be honest. I've found out that not thinking about what I want to say helps me be more fluent....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
4 points

Fear of relapsing Not believing that I've actually improved The "stuttering has no cure" dogma (which can be interpreted in many ways) Feeling that I don't deserve fluency...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
1 points

Thank you! I really felt I gave it my all of saying everything I wanted to say and not avoiding words since he knew I stuttered then why do I want to avoid saying that word? Rest just lies on him at ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
4 points

My freedom of speech. I will not be silenced and I was confirmed unsolicited messages shall be a new rule when my post indicated nothing for him to advertise his services to me when I told him I’m hap...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
2 points

I told him it's no crime to stutter and that I'm proud of the speech therapist I have that I've come to terms with my stutter that I'm now in a more happier mindset of how I view MY speech but he yet ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
3 points

Dehumanise him? You legit haven't read my post. He is FORCING his techniques to people who didn't ask for his help, charging them expensive prices and it's downright annoying and hurtful to the stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
0 points

I find this post very hurtful to read. People have their own opinions on stuttering and different techniques etc help everyone differently. There is really no need to be posting up hurtful things abou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAdvice Offered+2 more
postr/StutterJun 8, 2021
24 points

Update on my waitress interview

Update on my waitress interview Thank you to those who boosted my confidence to just let the manager know I stutter that if he’s going to make a huge deal about it and not see that I can still be comp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
3 points

I completely understand a million percent! I was you. When I stuttered in front of somebody I thought about it literally all day. I’d be lying if I said I’m NEVER impacted by my speech. After so many...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
3 points

I can’t engage with your forceful attitude of enabling this coach to go ahead and make himself go to every single member of this subreddit’s inboxes when if he genuinely wanted to help people then he ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
4 points

Good question, it's tough to remember. Probably the resentment I felt of my parents for not doing anything about it. Once I took steps on my own I eventually overcame it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
4 points

I would like to think like you, but I can't, i always feel like i lost a battle if i stuttered just once, can't deal with it, i just afraid that people would think that I'm stupid or something like th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
12 points

I’m 30 and stuttered my whole life, just like most of us have on here I’d assume. The happiest and most confident I’ve ever been came after I accepted that I stutter, I always will stutter, and it w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride