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postr/StutterJan 15, 2021
3 points

Blocking more with a specific person (authority)

Blocking more with a specific person (authority) Hello guys,I have noticed a positive tendency in my speech the last weeks or so,but speaking/reading in front of a specific person is a challenge.Any s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2021
1 points

I think you maybe your Dad's presence makes you feel slightly nervous? Or maybe you feel that he judges you? This may cause your brain to go into more aniexty than with other people. I have the same t...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2021
3 points

You are not alone! I get days feeling the exact same. People think I’m rude or being aloof when I don’t feel like talking much, they don’t know the struggle we have tho. The thing that frustrates me t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2021
6 points

Hard Times create strong men. I pray to god to not bless with me an easy life but to have the strength to endure a hard one. Stuttering can make us strong if we let it and we change our perception of ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2021
8 points

For non-stutterers reading this: Yes, we know we’re being quiet. Yes, we know we can chime in any time. We know it’s OK if we stutter. We know that it can make you feel awkward. It’s also 100% possi...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
5 points

I agree with you. My family insist I don’t have a stammer that it is just anxiety, it annoys me so much because I know it’s not caused by anxiety and that anxiety is a secondary condition to stammerin...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
3 points

Even relaxing doesnt do anything i just feel like something tightening up in my throat as soon as i approach somebody Im cursed lmao...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Physical TensionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
2 points

Its not like i was feeling hopeless cuz im doing pretty good at school but it just sucks to talk with people like i really love to interact with them and sometimes talk in class and participate but th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
2 points

It must be something with the anxiety. That’s what makes me stutter more...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
5 points

I mean if you say you can speak to yourself outloud without stuttering, I'd think it has to do more with the psychological barriers. How bad is you stutter when you talk to your best friends?...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
5 points

How old are you? I was just like you up until I turned 21. I moved out my parents house and started to be a little more independent. It's like a fresh start rewired my brain and made me stress less ab...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
11 points

Same here mate. I can sit in my room and read for 20mins non stop and not stutter once. Sometimes I think is it anxiety that causes us to stutter but then again there is times when I’m not anxious at ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
29 points

I've literally been thinking about this nonstop for the past year. Almost every stutterer is like this. It really shows that we don't have some brain damage or something. It's just that in a social si...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
3 points

As a teenage stutterer, I don’t think going on a a zoom call where someone focuses on your speech would be very popular considering how most people are covert stutters and are extremely self conscious...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
2 points

I’m 18 as well and can relate A LOT to your post. My stutter got especially bad in the first months of quarantine, but have gotten better over time as I’ve gotten into routines in recent months. I t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
2 points

Haven’t gotten completely rid of my stutter as I trip over some words from time to time, but feel as if I’ve gotten over it. I’m 29 now and think I’ve been getting more and more over it through my 20s...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
2 points

Probably hindered, but I still try to use it if it helps me avoid making a call. I am so anxious around phone calls, it’s crazy. I haven’t even been able to call petsmart to get a grooming appointme...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJan 13, 2021
24 points

just joined,, first time posting

just joined,, first time posting hi i’m a 18 year old male and i’ve stuttered my whole life. i’ve always wished i knew someone irl that also stuttered but unfortunately i haven’t, so i thought i’d com...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2021
1 points

Same... call me and I’ll be pretty anxious (usually with outside family) becuase of my stutter.. text me I’ll be all over it. I’ve been on an online meeting for stutters and literally 90% of them comm...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterJan 12, 2021
32 points

Feeling Overwhelmed and Lost/Sad

Feeling Overwhelmed and Lost/Sad Good evening everyone! ​ I (22 F) have been attending speech therapy for the past two months, and it has really made a difference in my life. However, I h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques+1 more