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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2021
2 points

I once walked into a McDonald's so filled with dread and recognizing that sensation of blocks galore, that I adopted the persona of a mute person, wrote what I wanted to order on a post it and gave it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2021
2 points

I know right! I think to myself if I just repeat what I say to myself, I should be able to get it out. Sadly I’ve accepted this lifestyle, thankfully my partner is willing to do all the talking in pub...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2021
4 points

Growing out of it will prob never happen, I'm sorry to say.. I'm 58, had a damn lifetime of this... I've mentioned on other posts, I'd be a completely diff person with a diff life if it wasn't fo...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/StutterJul 9, 2021
15 points

Stutter Pet Peeves

Stutter Pet Peeves Here's a small list for me to vent my frustrations out. \-When I know what I want to say, but it won't come out. \-Sometimes I struggle to pronounce words because of my stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionCycles & RandomnessSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2021
1 points

Stuttering isn’t usually at random intervals. I’ve had words that were never a much of a problem rather suddenly become a word I stutter on every time. Same thing happened with certain letters and sou...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Cycles & RandomnessAvoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2021
2 points

I let friends complete my blocks for me haha, I’ll just be like “I can’t say that word right now”...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2021
2 points

Interesting...I’m not a psychologist or a SLP. I understand the need to “own it” and accept the stutter without embarrassment. I’d rather speak fluidly tbh, and avoiding difficult words, replacing the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2021
2 points

My psycologist said not to replace words this way i m escaping from my stutter . I said its embarrassing n she replied " let it be . Just dont feel that way. Just say what u have to say no matter how ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2021
4 points

I'm not sure why you started stuttering. I've had a clutter stutter my entire life but people do say anxiety makes it worse. For most of us there isn't any physically making us stutter, its just somet...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2021
3 points

I have a hard time with words that start with vowels. One thing I’ve found that is helpful is using another word that guides me into it. For example, my name is a word I block on a lot. So when a cash...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2021
1 points

Write some common sentences on a paper or notepad. For example Hi my name is …. How can I help you today? And when the time come just read for the notepad. For me I don’t stammer when I am reading so...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2021
1 points

Not in IT but I work in vet medicine. Went into it thinking I’d just work with animals but had to talk to clients more and more as I got promoted. Was nervous as hell first, but with practice I got be...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2021
5 points

a general tip I give to my fellow stutterers and use myself, is to speak spontaneously as much as possible....

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Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2021
11 points

That is a type of stutter called blocking. Try breathing slowly and exhaling as you start to say the word. You may sound a little “breathy” but I find it helps. Also, the changing to another word is a...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2021
2 points

Hey man I have a mild stutter, but it never really got into the way of communicating with people especially girls. Even when I stutter girls don't seem to be bothered about it. I would suggest you tak...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2021
5 points

I have the same kind of stutter as you where I just can’t get anything out. Thankfully I have found ways to control it and it’s gotten noticeably better. I’m a drummer and started taking lessons abo...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Fluency TechniquesOverthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2021
2 points

I dont think there ever was a single point, there were a lot of them and aftrr some time, theyve made me immune to my speech fails. I also read lee lovetts book about how he beat his own stuttering....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
1 points

I just think if I can stutter through things when I'm at my worst, then bad days won't feel so bad, and good days will feel great. I've tried supps and things in the past and just ended up feeling wor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
7 points

I can only speak for myself, but after having a long period of barely being able to get past a sentence, when I have something to say, I say it. I always want to make sure my point is understood and m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
3 points

The hardest truth of having a stutter is that we're the only ones that can fix it. The problems you're describing are internal, not external. Socialization and conversational skills aren't skills that...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyMindset shift+1 more