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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
1 points

Hey! Thanks honestly I think that’s what I need to do not let my stutter affect me or stop me from doing what I want to do. But yeah I get you there’s been many many times where I’ve been talking to s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2021
7 points

It does affect me a lot mentally when I stutter more, and puts a damper on my mental health.. I’m working on accepting it but, it’s still hard. Ultimate goal is to overcome it completely and I think I...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterFeb 22, 2021
4 points

I have a presentation tomorrow any tips to reduce my stutter?

I have a presentation tomorrow any tips to reduce my stutter? So I have a presentation tomorrow and I have been stressing about it for the past couple of weeks. My self esteem is already really low, a...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2021
19 points

In my opinion you shouldnt be too happy that you stuttered less, you should be happy that you were brave enough and did communicate successfully even with stutter. The path you are taking is dangerous...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2021
4 points

Wow that’s great and honestly really inspiring! It’s always been a fear of mine that I won’t be able to pursue the job I want because of my stutter. I just need to stop caring what other ppl think and...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterFeb 21, 2021
80 points

i told my bf that i love him last night

i told my bf that i love him last night i ususally just say it in the discord chat and stuff. but this night, i was able to tell him. i feel fckin proud of myself lol mention he helped me say it to...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDisclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
1 points

Let's change your stance on this. You're not asking for other words to use because you stutter/stammer. "I have a broken ankle, and it hurts when I walk. Can anyone think of another way for me to hav...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
1 points

This is very tricky for us to help with, because your personal history is probably a big part of it, and I don't think there's any way for us to sort that out with a couple of internet comments. But ...

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Advice RequestsHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
1 points

Avoiding reinforces fear of stuttering because you continue to do everything to avoid it instead of challenging that fear. Constantly avoiding keeps your stress levels high because you're always worri...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2021
1 points

Yep, it has absolutely robbed me of my confidence. People don't even want to associate with me anymore because of it. I'm just a loner loser lol. But at least being alone makes it so that nobody has t...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2021
1 points

For me, it's anxiety. I've always felt like mental health therapy went much further than speech therapy. That's just me, but my speech therapy was in the late 80s...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2021
1 points

I am a therapist and have a stutter (and currently doing my masters in Speech Pathology) and in my opinion a psychologist could help with the negative impacts of having a stutter (self concept, anxiet...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2021
2 points

Exactly. And this is something easier said than done of course. It takes practice to engrain this mindset. But hurt people, hurt people....

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2021
3 points

It depends, a therapist wouldn't tell you how to talk or what techniques to use. But if you have anxiety, stress, or depression due to stuttering he would help you to deal with those feelings and be a...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2021
3 points

My SLP recommended a psychologist because the occurences and severity of my stuttering was heightened due to social anxiety and nervousness. The anxiety and nervousness was due to the way I think and ...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2021
1 points

SLPs are better for speech fluency. However I could see using a psychologist for social anxiety and gaining confidence, which may impact fluency...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2021
2 points

Just realize that no one will remember what you said even right after they watch the show, so it isn't a big deal for most people, while it is a huge deal for you....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2021
1 points

Yep, mine can go as far as getting pretty bad anxiety. Start sweating immediately, it's crazy. Makes it real difficult to speak in those situations....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2021
3 points

Anticipating speaking situations gets me all worked up and I start to worry about stuttering....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2021
3 points

Yea thats true, it's not always nervousness. How you respond to these people can either benefit of hurt your speech as well. If you allow other people's reactions to negatively impact you, you wil...

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