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commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
17 points

Not every woman is like this though, I luckily met an amazing woman and we've been dating for over a year now, but yeah, some people are just ignorant. Sometimes people are unlucky with who they want ...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterAug 9, 2024
54 points

Telling a girl my stutter

Telling a girl my stutter So, I seen plenty of posts saying, on if women give af about us men stuttering or vice versa. Here’s a clear example. As u see above. Don’t blame ur stutter for women not wa...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
1 points

I know how you feel bro and it sucks. Agree with everyone here that you deserve better if that is the reason that she lost interest. However, you should question yourself whether that is really the r...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
1 points

To be perfectly honest, it might not have been your speech that seemingly changed her interest. It could have been any multitude of things down to as simple and incomprehensible as a difference in vib...

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commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
1 points

Many of us have been here we know your pain buddy. I agree with everyone else, she wasn't worth it. I personally just started telling girls that I stutter immediatly when I introduced myself. This ...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/women_who_stutterAug 8, 2024
1 points

Therefore, if your stutter is truly visible, mention it, whether it be or your profile or during the first messages. I feel it's easier to deal with rejection when you don't know the person... Recen...

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2024
-2 points

As a guy, how much easier do you find it when talking to males? Your post probably explains why as a stutterer myself, I found it difficult talking to females especially if you're confirming as female...

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commentr/StutterAug 8, 2024
2 points

Yep, I’ve struggled with making female friends as well. It sucks honestly, I often find myself wishing I had girlfriends to shop with or have dinner dates. It’s so hard meeting people as an adult, but...

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commentr/StutterAug 8, 2024
10 points

Nah fuck her. There’s plenty of girls out there that don’t care about stuttering and I know that from experience. Build yourself up and let a queen come to you...

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commentr/StutterAug 8, 2024
4 points

I know that situation pretty well since I am a guy that was (at least until a few years ago) kind of a tall, athletic, longhaired beau. Maybe because of my stutter, maybe because of my character (some...

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2024
32 points

You deserve someone that is willing to be open-minded about your speech impediment. You don't want someone in your life who is already judging you for it. On to the next one....

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postr/StutterAug 7, 2024
33 points

Once again my stuttering has driven my mental health to the floor

Once again my stuttering has driven my mental health to the floor I got assigned a three day job in college helping with a fair. In my work group there is a girl, she seemed pretty interested in me, w...

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commentr/stutteringAug 6, 2024
1 points

Another story, one day I've got a match with a girl. We started texting, sending pictures ..etc I liked her, she liked me everything was okay. When finally she called me to talk at night, I stuttered ...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
1 points

Ive been in multiple relationships since getting in/out of college and like many have said, they were supportive. Some even found it cute because they saw the excitement in my eyes when I stuttered...

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commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
1 points

Im 32 and have been w a decent amount of girls but stuttering makes it SO much more difficult. You look like an idiot and it makes you look less confident. Ive abused pills and alcohol to try and calm...

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commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
1 points

Dating experience? what is that as stuttering person who cant say a word because he is anxieted what will person think...

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commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
1 points

Those long ones is my speech 24/7. I’ll tell you about myself: I’m a ladies man as well, (not to brag at all) I would say I’m conveniently attractive, I get eye contact and smiles. I do all the looksm...

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commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
1 points

When I’m nervous, I can let out some long ones. I’m like really good at substituting. My mind is always moving super fast nonstop. Some say that’s exhausting but I feel like it’s a gift. You have to l...

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commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
1 points

Lovely story (seriously). I’m really not trying to be pessimistic, but I feel like there’s a significant difference between mild stutter and a stutter where you have a 15 second block 3 times a senten...

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commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
3 points

Growing up I was a moderate to severe but joining the military and have a customer base job turned it to mild. I’ve always been a ladies man. Not to brag but I’m just adding context. I’ve always been ...

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