Therefore, if your stutter is truly visible, mention it, whether it be or your profile or during the first messages. I feel it's easier to deal with rejection when you don't know the person... Recently, I went on a date with someone I had met on Hinge and told beforehand that I stutter. Even though he accepted to go on a date, I feel that the reason he ghosted me after that has to deal with my stuttering. Thus, I feel that even by telling that you do stutter, it won't prevent people from rejecting you So yeah, I might be as lost as you are... But after that I decided not to mention it before a date. Because it reinforces it. This point is fully personal and depends on how you deal with it and your capacity of masking it (or not).