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postr/StutterFeb 26, 2025
7 points

I have so much anger about everything. I don't know how to deal with it.

I have so much anger about everything. I don't know how to deal with it. I feel an incredible amount of anger and bitterness towards the world. I'm angry at how people mock others, make fun of disabil...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2025
1 points

Thank you for your input. By going mute, I mean completely mute as in I’d never speak no matter who I’m with. It’s just not worth looking the way I do when I speak. My face freezes and twitches. My ey...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2025
1 points

Thank you for your input. By going mute, I mean completely mute as in I’d never speak no matter who I’m with. It’s just not worth looking the way I do when I speak. My face freezes and twitches. My ey...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 26, 2025
10 points

Stutter so bad to the point I want to go mute

Stutter so bad to the point I want to go mute Hi, I’m 20 and have a pretty severe stutter. I work in the horse training industry. I got a call today from a ranch looking to hire me. I declined the pho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2025
1 points

this guy gets it, i’m gonna sew my mouth shut it’s genuinely mentally sickening getting stuck on words. i can’t even mention my little brother to people bc i get stuck on ‘br’ words....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterFeb 26, 2025
7 points

fake friends, pity parties.

fake friends, pity parties. recently ive been feeling like my closest friend is mostly just been throwing me a pity party, im getting these feelings by things he says here and there, changing plans, s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2025
1 points

I no longer repeat my words like St-st-st-stop I-i-i-i-it. Now It's silent. I make no noise until I can fully say the word. So my flow is very choppy and I can only say 1 word at a time... sometimes I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 25, 2025
3 points

What panic stories do you tell yourself while stuttering happens?

What panic stories do you tell yourself while stuttering happens? I'm on the tail end of working through a lot of mental trauma that got out of hand, giving me OCD, daily panic attacks and a couple mo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 25, 2025
7 points

any tips??

any tips?? I Feel useless because of my stutter i’m 18 and my name isn’t important i have big aspersions in life but i’m disappointed in myself. I want to become a corporate lawyer, and my grades are...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2025
1 points

I have a painful and embarrassing memory from secondary school when I stammered trying saying my name in assembly. Everyone laughed at me and even back in my class, my peers were mocking me. Nearly 20...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2025
1 points

Idk why but I don't want anyone to know that I stutter, I don't want those sympathetic eyes and expressions. I don't wanna feel vulnerable in front of others. Idk if i will ever be able to stutter con...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2025
1 points

I’ve always had it for as long as I can remember but it didn’t get bad until the 3rd grade when I started getting bullied for it and everything. It was bad from about the 3rd grade up until 10th grade...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterFeb 23, 2025
1 points

Stutter shaping your identity

Stutter shaping your identity Hi, does anyone feel that there stutter has significantly shaped part of there identity. People who have had it young, do you feel you lead a fulfilling life without bei...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 23, 2025
6 points

Motivation

Motivation I stutter my whole life. Its pretty hard. I guess the fear and anxiety is probally harder then the stutter itself. We came across so much frustation, humiliation, fear. At most pain of r...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2025
2 points

Part of my speech therapy was to listen to people stutter. It will always be hard for me. I just really struggle because I know what it feels like to stutter, and the pain/frustration that comes with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Experiential AssociationShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2025
3 points

Yes, I find it very uncomfortable. It's like I can feel it in my own throat and in my head, just as if it was me who stuttered....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2025
5 points

We all fucking hate stuttering so much that we can´t even look it on the eye. Also the shame.......

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2025
6 points

So true. I feel shame when I do it. And if I know that the person next to me knows that I stutter I feel more ashamed....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2025
7 points

Yeah same thing for me , i just hate stuttering and when I see someone stutter i get very uncomfortable and can't listen to them....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2025
2 points

Icl I’ve had times where there’s been other ppl irl who stuttered and I couldn’t stand it. Mainly because I felt embarrassed for him going thru what I would be feeling if I was in his situation (which...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more