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commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
2 points

This is completely backwards thinking. If you always avoid embarrassment like it's the plague, how is that ever going to help you? All that does is set you up for a life filled with regret for all the...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
2 points

Don’t classify your speech experiences as good or bad. Do not assign negative connotation to your stutter. This is the most valuable lesson I learnt in the past 40 years of stuttering. The danger of d...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
3 points

ok i laughed until i saw the end of your comment and went eh. because yeah, it can be pretty funny asf becoming the accidental punchline if it unfolds that way but tbh just saying it like an asshole o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
5 points

Just do it man. Life is short. Memory about embarrassing moment will fade and you won't give a f about it anymore if you often do it....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
5 points

Maybe people are put off by the first sentence but this is the best answer given. People seem to think they can run away from this. I know I've been trying to for most of my life. And what most of y'a...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHelplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
1 points

That's hot. Wait. You Bastard!!! You're on disability, hot damn that was real? Fuck lol. Whatever I managed to get good at it lol. Anyways, that was a load of sad sack of shit, but if you feel like ta...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
1 points

Have you tried shouting your words for fun? Idk, maybe you need to spice it up dude. Heck, if you just need someone to talk to who got away mostly from stuttering my discord is "danielchokeable". Feel...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
1 points

Booooo, fuck other people, boooooooooooo. But yeah about the weed, sucks to not have a clear head. But fr fr, join a fight club or shoot guns to electrify and jump start those nerves so you make a new...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Stress & Fight/FlightMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
1 points

That's hot. Let's talk if you have time. My discord is "danielchokeable" if you wanna talk about it my fellow asshat. But in case you don't add me, have you tried literally saying shit in a mocking to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
1 points

Zoom. Slowing down never worked for me. I wanted to speak normally so I shit-talked my way to success and looked and felt completely retarded countless times. You get used to it and start to actually ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
1 points

Just learn to scream. You won't stutter then :p. But fr fr? I don't know how old you are but something seemingly universal are fighting classes. I would say go do that, but I grew up pretty poor so if...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
2 points

Honestly man? Lean into it and stop caring how you feel about it. I don't know if you know what the witcher is but to use some character building, the main guy Gerelt magic monster killer for hire and...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
2 points

edit from the bottom: fuck, I rambled sorry. But yeah, just keep working at it. Play video games with friends or nobodies, take on customer facing work, literally talk to random people you mee, fuckin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
2 points

Hell no. Agreed that problems don't just go away usually and tend to fester and definitely agreed on you have to take action, but that doesn't mean you always need a mechanic to change out a radiator ...

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Advice RequestsMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

I’ll give the book a read. Maybe I can take my speech to superhuman levels\[ lol feels wierd saying it, knowing how f\*\*ked I was\] . Also for anyone reading this, when u get fluency in ur speech and...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
-4 points

We're on very different pages. You appear to be focus on the past. Whereas I am looking at how to move forward....

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

My two cents is that stuttering is essentially subconscious habit and a very high stress that you don’t see because you are in stress , you should visit a hypnotherapist and fix your subconscious or s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2024
7 points

You have to not care, live your life. It’s how you talk they will get over it. People will judge you no matter what. I get it though it’s awkward as fuck. I’m 33 now and I PROMISE people don’t care as...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2024
1 points

Uh uh, dude. Take responsibility and change your mindset around stuttering. It's only YOU that change your life for the better...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2024
1 points

Interesting. Confidence sure is important. Slowing down because of acting cool is good thing. Probably your whole body will be more relaxed in this process. Thanks for sharing. ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftPreparation & Rehearsal