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commentr/StutterJul 28, 2021
1 points

I was on time and presentable but it just seemed like she was showing that I wasn’t fit for the job in some kinda way idk...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJul 28, 2021
11 points

Any tips or strategies?

Any tips or strategies? Hello fellow stutterers, This year I’m going a new school, and I’m kind of worried about how I’m going to approach this. In the past I’ve had trouble making friends with my stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
6 points

The fear and anxiousness you’ve created in specific situations like asking for something is causing tension in your speaking muscles which is why you have the block. Its a delicate situation because t...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
1 points

What if I can't find a man to see beyond the stutter? What if I may never get a job no matter how qualified I am because there's someone better than me and I can't control other's opinions of me?...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
1 points

I'm sure they would. Not online but let's say if I meet someone out and about or even on an app. Then, I'm out of luck. I dress well and am fit but my features I was born ugly and with unfortunate f...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
2 points

Hi. Thank you for your reply. Congrats on the relationship. I'm sure a lot of people care. Once I tell them, they will not want to be my friend nor want to like me or be in a relationship with me li...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
2 points

How were you able to get a job and what did your crush say when you told them that you stutter? I want to put myself out there but am afraid no one will like me or want to be my friend....

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Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
2 points

Thank you for sharing your story and am glad everything worked out for you. I really don't know if people will like or accept me despite let's say applying for jobs or trying to find a mate should I t...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
3 points

I think the fear is starting to get a hold of you. The more fear you have the more it's going to negatively impact situations. Push yourself outside your comfort zone. Dont avoid those words. And b...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 27, 2021
14 points

Sorry for the long post guys! Talking about my stutter

Sorry for the long post guys! Talking about my stutter I'm 23 , currently a 4th year medical student. I am a stutterer since I could remember. But I didn't believe few years back that I actually stutt...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
17 points

Or the elusive "Did you forget why you are here?" This was actually said to me. BY A JUDGE. In traffic court....

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Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2021
1 points

Thanks for the message. There are situations where I just stress out and have to talk fast its just how it is I always try relaxing but I still try....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2021
4 points

Give it a time. After 1 Month ask yourself "do I feel more confident that at the day 1?" If so, it will get only better. I can imagine that most of the time you will improve. Let´s say you stutter li...

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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2021
12 points

Well, I had a big block once I wanted to say my adress in public and my wife was also there. The next time i was about to say my adress again she told me to "say firstly the adress to me". I said "why...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 26, 2021
13 points

First job

First job I’m 17 and I started my first ever job a couple of weeks ago as a waiter in a pub. So far it hasn’t been too bad. I like it but I find it so difficult to talk to customers. Just asking them ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterJul 26, 2021
34 points

my gf mentioned my stutter for the 1st time.

my gf mentioned my stutter for the 1st time. I'm 22 and i've been dating my girlfriend for 2 years. she never mentioned or launched a conversation about my stuttering. so we were hanging out in that r...

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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2021
2 points

I know the feeling. When I used to stutter terribly, the thought of talking to someone made my heart race. I'll play some games with you, you can even have your mic on mute while I talk, I don't mind....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2021
2 points

I think it depends on if your stutter is related to anxiety....

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2021
2 points

I stutter, and it fucking kills me. But in situations where I have confidence I can man gage my stutter a whole lot better...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2021
1 points

Thank you for answering. You might have attended one gem of a therapy program. Also, you're lucky that you don't have social anxiety, because about 40-60% stutterers do have it, including me. Makes t...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment