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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2021
3 points

If you wanna say it just say that you have public speech anxiety. I wouldn't say stutter....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2021
3 points

Yes do it! It will make the listners more comfortable as well. Not that we should care but you know there are times when it's in our interest so should care that they don't get surprised or feel awkw...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterSep 19, 2021
3 points

Interviews

Interviews Hello! I am going to apply for a scholarship to study in Japan named MEXT. The problem is that i have a stutter and the interview phase is known (at least in my country), to be spoken in 3...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAdvice RequestsAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2021
1 points

Maybe we use our brain in one way when we are alone and in another way when we are together with others. Maybe it’s anxiety maybe it’s just malfunction . To me the biggest mystery is; why can’t “scie...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightRoles & Performance+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2021
1 points

I’m curious, what do you think the reason is that we stutter around other people but not alone? Do you think it’s anxiety or something else?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2021
2 points

I believe that I probably have a biological predisposition to stuttering but it didn’t come out till I began to accumulate negative feelings such as anxiety around other people. It is still the same t...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2021
0 points

Nah, not really, once you do this for a few times, becomes so much easier, at least anxiety wise. Not everything is so bad....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2021
1 points

Thank you for your reply! That does make sense that those who stuttered since a young age have had their personalities shaped by it. I also think that stuttering has further been an influence on me fe...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2021
3 points

Did your stutter get better once you stopped caring? I take it the anxiety and tension is no longer there?...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2021
2 points

When you obsess about something to the point it starts causing a problem I’d say that’s ocd. Stutterers obsess constantly at when they will next speak or speaking situation or how they will say what t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2021
3 points

Through my stutter has improved over the years, it's not fully goen yet (I really hope the yet is true) But my advice for you would be to relax more. I'm assuming, like me, your stress comes from you...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2021
2 points

Same here when I'm anticipating a potential call any moment at the desk that I feel way more under pressure if there's someone else right next to me!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 16, 2021
14 points

Tuff

Tuff Friday or Monday I’m making a move at school, this girl sits alone cuz she’s new to the school I’m new too and I like her, Tuesday I was gonna talk to her but my stutter holds me back like I don’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterSep 16, 2021
6 points

Anxiety about phone calls

Anxiety about phone calls I get super anxious about calling people that are not close friends of mine that I regularly talk to, I guess it stems from a fear of stammering as I am a mild stutterer, pro...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2021
1 points

worst case scenario if someone is rude to you they will probably just hang up. it can feel like crap but you can always call back and if you get the same person, you can tell them they were being rude...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2021
1 points

It really depends on the situation. People who make fun of a person who stutters by mimicking the stutter, or by saying things “can’t you just say it normally?” Is really offensive. Your professor is ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2021
4 points

I voted "no", as long as you don't do it in front of us or in a mocking way. Personally I cannot stand to hear others stutter, not that I find it embarassing, I honestly feel extremely empathetic to t...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & StoppagesRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/StutterSep 14, 2021
13 points

I don't know if I belong here but i want to vent a bit

I don't know if I belong here but i want to vent a bit Ever since I got Depressed due to Problems in school and a mother that didn't care, I've gotten extremely reserved and stopped having normal conv...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2021
3 points

Thanks for your comment. Firstly, it always makes me happy knowing about stutterers who reached great places despite our condition. Being a snr. solutions architect esp. in cybersecurity is a sweet gi...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2021
3 points

Thanks for your comment. What somewhat motivates me is knowing that Im not alone on this earth facing this problem and that many stutterers have achieved greatness in life well beyond a well paying jo...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationMindset shift+1 more