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postr/StutterApr 20, 2025
12 points

Hi

Hi Uhhhh, I don't really post on here—kinda been lurking around—but I just wanted to rant about some things. I've had a really bad stutter: the long pauses, head jerks, repetition—the whole nine yar...

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postr/StutterApr 19, 2025
26 points

Does anyone else feel stupid when they stutter?

Does anyone else feel stupid when they stutter? Sometimes when I have a hard time with my fluency, I just feel stupid and defeated. Does anyone else feel this way or is it just a me thing I need to...

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postr/StutterApr 17, 2025
20 points

Stutter, chronic avoidance, and scared about the future

Stutter, chronic avoidance, and scared about the future I know this doesn’t apply to every stutterer, but for me in particular, I’ve avoided things I enjoy and social situations with people I like eve...

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commentr/StutterApr 14, 2025
34 points

No way to sugar coat this... Stuttering itself isn't what is preventing you from forming relationships. It's your unhealthy perception of yourself and stuttering. If the speech therapy you're receivi...

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commentr/StutterApr 14, 2025
3 points

Mostly, yes. I feel like I am not worthy of being in a relationship were the other person won't get a confident man. I feel it would be annoying for the other person to be held back by all accounts, e...

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postr/StutterApr 14, 2025
46 points

Has stuttering completely vaporized your thoughts of having a girlfriend, or a wife, or any emotional relationship ?

Has stuttering completely vaporized your thoughts of having a girlfriend, or a wife, or any emotional relationship ? # there's no concrete solution to this. Research is in shambles. Speech therapy is...

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Dating & RomanceSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterApr 13, 2025
2 points

How do fellow severe stutterers go on?

How do fellow severe stutterers go on? I have a very severe stutter, am functionally mute. I cannot talk on the phone and in-person I write down 90% of the things I want to say because the alternative...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesHelplessness & AgencySuicidal Ideation & High Distress
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2025
1 points

I understand the rage, but I wouldn’t turn it on other people who stutter. We all had our times of intense suffering, intense rage, and intense loneliness. If you think you’re the only one feeling thi...

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postr/StutterApr 9, 2025
8 points

Somebody already figured out what horror thing could have happened to us in childhood to became this fearful of talking?

Somebody already figured out what horror thing could have happened to us in childhood to became this fearful of talking? This is a genuine question really. I'm thinking about my stuttering and how thi...

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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2025
18 points

If your metric is curing your stutter you're going to be unhappy. The reason people say that you need to learn to accept your stutter is because not doing so makes you miserable. No ones saying its...

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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2025
-5 points

I’m not “born with a stutter”, actually. I developed it in the last few years. I did hint at it in this post but I should’ve made it clearer mb. But not to be blunt here, I care absolutely less that ...

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postr/StutterApr 9, 2025
17 points

“yOu LeArN tO DeAL wItH iT”

“yOu LeArN tO DeAL wItH iT” This is a rant so if I'm targeting you PLEASE take it with a grain of salt what I'm about to say because I am in reality just pissed off at my stuttering: I'm sick of this ...

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postr/StutterApr 8, 2025
32 points

Beyond depressed

Beyond depressed I am 24 and have had a stutter my whole life I have had many different jobs, I even had a job answering phones for a period of time. A year or 2 ago my stutter and confidence got to t...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2025
1 points

Not on its own. I'm 27 and let my stutter consume my whole life. I never got to enjoy my teenage years nor my 20's and as an old man I'll have no memories to look back on. Don't wait for it to get bet...

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commentr/StutterApr 7, 2025
1 points

Just a little vent. I was pretty much saying that I hate stuttering and I wish I can fix this problem. It would help so much and my life easier 🤣...

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commentr/stutteringApr 7, 2025
1 points

I prayed as a kid that God would take something else away and just let me talk normal.. so I know how u feel...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2025
1 points

The best you can do is talk about the elephant in the room before the interview gets in the serious area. Tell them you stutter, tell them it doesn't mean you're joking around, and that you are just ...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2025
3 points

There are going to be times when a speech impediment is hindering your progress. That's when you dig deep and work harder for what you want. Unlike brushing up my teeth and Bigfoot, I believe in you...

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commentr/StutterApr 6, 2025
1 points

Hello. I am also getting my life destroyed by stuttering and anxiety. What you describe here is exactly how I feel when I try to communicate with other people: trapped, restrained, choked up. (Even wh...

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postr/StutterApr 5, 2025
20 points

does it get better?

does it get better? I'm 14 and have a stutter, it's not much but it is there. I was wondering if with time it sort of went away or if it has stayed with you. I am scared for the future. That my stutte...

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Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception