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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

I agree to a certain extent. I am(25M) and I had the same thought. I thought I was never going to find a woman in my life. Surprisingly I started working on myself physically and emotionally and that'...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

You're the one attacking people by calling them delusional just because they're able to find peace in what they have been dealt. Life is not perfect, you don't have to be, so it's not that people "pre...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

You can learn to move away from bitterness and soul destroying cynicism by examining how people with serious facial disfigurements adapt: "Despite the myriad challenges, many individuals with facial ...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
6 points

The problem isn’t just the stutter itself. It’s the side effects that come with it. Like you said, if it was *just* the stuttering, then accepting it would be the best option. Idc if it’s considered a...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
8 points

There is no cure. There are ways to adapt to stuttering so that you feel you stutter less and there are also tools that may or may not help you reduce how much you stutter, but there is no cure. Anyon...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

The \*only way\* to find happiness is to work with what you've got and adapt. There are people with far, far worse disabilities than stuttering who lead happy lives because they've accepted their situ...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

My therapist: I don't want you to stop stuttering; I want you to stutter, but freely. This has really changed my point of view....

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

I still wanna understand what accepting it internally and externally really means. How do you accept it in your daily life?...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

I am too. It's just so negative. I understand that stuttering sucks, believe me. It's the most embarrassing thing ever, but I come here looking for support and possible ways to overcome, manage, help ...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

Wonderful. I've seen her in some stuttering summits to and she speaks great. It's really the power of the mind and when we control our mind we hold all the power. Thanks for sharing....

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

For me, the most effective thing is to accept my stutter 😁...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

I just think that us as humans can choose how we react to good or bad events that happen to us. So we can choose if a stutter is a good or bad thing. If you let it destroy you, it will. If you use it ...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

Could you keep a beach ball underwater for a whole day? (don’t hide your stutter)...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
4 points

That’s another thing we need to resolve in this community. If your goal everyday is to minimize/eliminate stuttering you are doomed to fail. It’s like trying to keep a beach ball underwater. You spend...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

My theory: I don't believe it's anything to to do with social pressure etc. I'm the same - I don't stammer at all if I read from a book in a room by myself. What I suspect is happening (and I think ev...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

You are thinking about this exactly the right way; your awareness and sensitivity already make a huge difference for him. When stuttering increases, yes, it is often connected to anxiety or pressure, ...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
2 points

Yep, she's as real as it gets 😂. I know her and she's awesome. Met her through the same program and it has helped me a lot in my own journey with stuttering....

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

I don’t know a way to really walk this line other than to stick to the core principles of Self Help, where you share your experiences but you don’t offer advice to others. Alternative viewpoints, like...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
2 points

This is such a kind and thoughtful post, your friend is really lucky to have someone who cares this deeply. I’m a speech therapist, and honestly, the way you’re thinking about this already shows the r...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
2 points

Thank you for your kind words! Yeah growing up with a stutter was tough, especially the teen years. But I married an amazing woman that gave me the confidence to mostly conquer my stutter. When around...

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