I agree to a certain extent. I am(25M) and I had the same thought. I thought I was never going to find a woman in my life. Surprisingly I started working on myself physically and emotionally and that's when I went for it. I actually talk ALOT easier with her than any of my family members. I talk more than her! Anything is possible. We been together for 3 years now and I communicate ALOT more than her.