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commentr/StutterNov 24, 2021
8 points

See, everyone has different triggers for stuttering. And there are ways to counter them. The thing that works for me is not to give others power over me. I think of them as equal. Never for once think...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2021
5 points

Hi! This sounds very familiar. I talk with a lot of people on teams/skype in my job since I work from home. I started working from home after the pandemic hit, and my boss doesn't care where i'm loca...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Energy & Biological RhythmsAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindfulness & Breathing
postr/StutterNov 24, 2021
1 points

how to speak school attendance without fear and stammering

how to speak school attendance without fear and stammering [removed]...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2021
8 points

Yes I second that. Only you can give these people the power to make yourself feel like shit. It’s not easy but over time you will begin to put people who uplift you above everyone else and the others ...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2021
5 points

People can be absolutely crappy and cruel but the good news is that like you said, you have good friends who don't feel the need to mention your stutter nor put you down for it but just tough to find ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterNov 24, 2021
107 points

Got bullied for the first time today, I feel like shit.

Got bullied for the first time today, I feel like shit. I've never been bullied in school before. I have normal friends, normal people in my school and they never mentioned anything about my stutter,...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2021
5 points

Have you thought about disclosing your stutter at the start if the interview? If you tell them upfront that you stutter, this may put you both at ease and you won’t be nervous about if they are wonder...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2021
5 points

As someone with a stammer, I know exactly how you feel and let me tell you, you're a lot more than your stammer and you're definitely not alone. Therapy can help but what would make a huge difference ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2021
2 points

You can only do your best so don’t worry too much because whatever will be will be! With your stammer it’s best just to stay relaxed and talk slowly. I wish you the best and don’t worry if it doesn’t ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterNov 22, 2021
30 points

I CANNOT DO THIS ANYMORE

I CANNOT DO THIS ANYMORE Hello, I am a 24 year old male with a stammer. I have had one for most of my life, starting from the age of six. This condition has dominated all aspects of my life. I can’t m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2021
3 points

If it would make you more comfortable then sure go for it! Knowing you told her might even make you more relaxed thus making you stutter less...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2021
7 points

I had a couple interviews in the past few months and what worked for me was greeting my interviewers and asking them about their day and how they were doing like we were already friends which made me ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterNov 22, 2021
13 points

I'm getting recommended posts from r/Agoraphobia, because it's similar to this sub.....

I'm getting recommended posts from r/Agoraphobia, because it's similar to this sub..... What the fuck, Reddit? I know a lot of us have social anxiety due to the stuttering but I'm definitely not agora...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 22, 2021
13 points

Tmrw interview

Tmrw interview Hi guys i have an interview tmrw, and I'm stressed rn frightened from anything goes wrong Can u advice me what to do to control my stuttering...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
2 points

When I stutter, I'm used to noticing things about myself beyond my stutter where-as I think many are too consumed with their stutter mainly due to worrying what others think so being more worried abou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
2 points

That’s great that you’re not caught in the trap of focusing on which sounds you stuttered on, but rather you are seeing your stuttering triggers. That’s important because all you have to learn now is ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
2 points

Why do you say that a little stutter would put you out of the running for a flight attendant job? You’re really focused on your speech but the airline companies and customers might not be. Joe Biden s...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
2 points

Start off by saying 'Hi my name is xxxxxx. And i just wanted to let you guys know that i am a person with stutter, so please bare with me when im taking my time. Appreciate you understanding it' I am...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
3 points

Tbh I feel so much better right now tysm. You're right. Literally noone notices even when I think it's really obvious, I'll be fine...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
3 points

I'm a believer in "advertising" my stutter if I'm in a stressful situation. It shows confidence and takes away fear. I may even get the first stutter out on purpose to get it out of the way. Use the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others