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postr/StutterDec 5, 2021
7 points

Stuttering relation towards "unrelated" problems. (Q/Vent)

Stuttering relation towards "unrelated" problems. (Q/Vent) Hey, i just want your pov on this because i truly believe stuttering is the root of many of my struggles that i deal with. I'm 17 and live in...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
3 points

Don't quit mate. I'm currently in medical school and trust me, i know that look people give you when you stutter, they treat you as mentally impaired or pity you, i absolutely hate that feeling too. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
2 points

Actually when we are with the people we feel most comfortable with, the less our stutter impedes us. Since stuttering is brought about sometimes by anxiety internally, there must be some part of you t...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & PsychologicalSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
4 points

1. Prepare the speech/script, the ACTUAL thing you are going to say, word for word (including puns) to leave out any space for spontaneity. 2. Practice in your room atleast 3-4 times and visualise th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2021
3 points

Yes, teachers and classmates know that I stutter and they never even tease me. But I'm still very embarrassed to stutter in front of 30 people....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 4, 2021
22 points

In 3 months I will have a presentation at school, and I stutter. What to do?

In 3 months I will have a presentation at school, and I stutter. What to do? ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2021
1 points

Thanks👍. Yea, when it came to texting girls back I used to be the same exact way. Right when I hit the send button I was almost sure that I had said the wrong thing and was about to confuse, or offe...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2021
1 points

I think what you laid out is a strong foundation for any kind of struggle and would equate in success more often than not. I think another aspect is expectations. Some people achieve 50 percent imp...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2021
3 points

This, you are your worst own enemy. Also, it took me so long to realise no one gives a fuck what you're talking about, everyone is so absorbed in their own shit going on. I'm pretty comfortable publi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 3, 2021
12 points

A talk about presentations

A talk about presentations Hi guys. So one thing I was really trying to wrap my head around was how, in North America atleast, presentations are mandatory throughout school: first it starts with theat...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
7 points

Believe me, you care far more about how you are perceived, then how much other people care. If you can do your job, and people like you I cant see how it will result in you losing your job. Also look...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
8 points

Bruh, I recently got selected for an internship at a pretty high profile company next summer, and the only thing on my mind has been that they'll realise that they've made a mistake. I'm scared af tha...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
20 points

Not sure if it is relevant for you, but as a fellow stutter, I noticed that I was always much harder on myself than any other person when I stutter. While I understand this, I often get really sad wh...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 3, 2021
23 points

Feel like they made a mistake hiring me and that they'll realise it eventually (vent)

Feel like they made a mistake hiring me and that they'll realise it eventually (vent) So I'm almost done with my internship at a big firm and half way through they already offered me a job for after m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterDec 3, 2021
4 points

Online class

Online class Hi, I would like you to help me. (I'm using google translator, sorry if you don't understand some part) I got a job and for the next four months I will be taking online classes to prep...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
1 points

I feel you. I am a senior SE student with a stutter. I also have the highest marks but people often perceive me as stupid and very shy since I can't do presentations and explain stuff easily like they...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
1 points

I don’t know. I have always stuttered but it got significantly worse when I started high school. So maybe it’s something with stress or anxiety....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 3, 2021
12 points

Everytime I try to speak English, I can’t breath

Everytime I try to speak English, I can’t breath I have been trying to speak with a friend of mine. Sometimes I can speak, but I feel like I’m under pressure to speak, so I just start to laugh or cry....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2021
5 points

I think I stutter because I believe that I am on the autistic spectrum, and with that I can have some confusion about how to socialize appropriately. This leads to my mind being conflicted about what ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2021
1 points

I think you can get a good idea of how they feel inside by watching the student’s overall behavior and body language. For example, if the student only speaks when you call on him, this may mean that t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking