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postr/StutterMar 6, 2017
18 points

Success

Success Ever since university started in September my speech-confidence has skyrocketed. I am no longer anxious about ordering food, making phone calls or being in larger social gatherings- at least, ...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2017
1 points

Holy shit, are we twins?? That's how I feel too, I just get on with my life. (Also late 20's civil engineer, ha!) ...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2017
7 points

Being honest about it helps (with yourself and with others). It really reduces the pressure to be fluent. I stutter and I'm a writer and a manager. I'm doing pretty well for myself. I think being unab...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2017
18 points

TLDR: Learn to accept and embrace your stutter and people won't care about your speech, period. I consider my stutter to be severe (frequent blocks with facial secondary characteristiics, etc). I am...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2017
1 points

Evening or uhm morning? I'm a doctor and have been stuttering since I was about 7years old. With regards to med school and interviews. In my experience it would be best to be upfront about your imp...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2017
8 points

I can completely relate. I have stuttered since I was nine years old I am now twenty two and still live my stutter. I work at a fast food restaurant that is known for its speedy service and retro driv...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2017
2 points

I used to have a horrible time talking on the phone. Working in customer service (of all the choices) and talking on the phone regularly has been a huge help for me. I'd be more than happy to talk. ...

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postr/StutterFeb 27, 2017
16 points

Anyone interested in talking on skype (voice call) ?

Anyone interested in talking on skype (voice call) ? Hey everyone. I am a stutterer. I used to talk with my friends and family on the phone but in the last few years I started avoiding calls unconscio...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2017
12 points

Remember folks. Try to accept your situation and never hope for a cure. Work on yourself and you will be happier. A cure will not come in our lifetime....

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2017
4 points

Just keep going, man. I think probably everyone in the world by now has a bad story about a first online date. Dating's not always fun or easy. I've had some terribly awkward online dates. Only one of...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2017
8 points

You sound like a great person. I wish there were more people out there like you. I work as a server at a drive in and it never ceases to amaze me how few people there are out there who simply are supe...

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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2017
3 points

I speak often at my job, sometimes over a radio, and I remember my first job dreading this (I had to use a radio then, too) but after awhile I got over it. Exposure helps ease the burden and makes sel...

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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2017
4 points

That is certainly a valid concern and you're right; you don't want to use it as an excuse. I talked about it by discussing how it was hard to deal with growing up but that as I got older, I pursued op...

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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2017
2 points

If you don't mind, may I ask how did you address it in your PS? I'm just afraid that I might come off as whining, and making excuses for my lack of leadership EC's...

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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2017
6 points

I have what I would call a mild stutter but when I applied to medical school, it was obviously something that weighed heavily on my mind. I chose to write about my stutter in my personal statement (no...

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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2017
10 points

I don't agree; acknowledging that you stutter is better that trying to pretend it's not there. I don't mean making a big deal out of it, but saying nothing is almost always worse in a situation like ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2017
3 points

That's also what I thought :( but really healthcare is all I feel like doing tbh, and I doubt that I'll be able to make it through other healthcare careers' interviews if I cannot make it thru med sch...

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commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2017
-7 points

It doesn't sound like you'd be a very competent candidate tbh... I've never had any experience in those interviews but I imagine it's the kind of situation where the more you mention your problems t...

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postr/StutterFeb 21, 2017
6 points

College student needs some advice regarding interviews to med school

College student needs some advice regarding interviews to med school I've been in the US for 7 years, but because of the chronic stuttering and heavy accent, it's really difficult for everyone else to...

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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2017
2 points

I used to stutter on just about every interaction with a stranger and would avoid phone calls completely. Now I work in a job where I'm expected to speak up and make myself heard in technical conversa...

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