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postr/StutterDec 13, 2021
23 points

Does anyone feel like their stutter makes them blurt out the wrong words?

Does anyone feel like their stutter makes them blurt out the wrong words? My stutter got worse after I was 12-13 I guess, I’m 24 right now. I feel lately whenever someone asks me something, I’m just s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 13, 2021
25 points

Does thinking about stuttering make it worse?

Does thinking about stuttering make it worse? I don't know if this is obvious but whenever I think about my stutter it gets worse ...but when I'm unaware of it I rarely stutter If thinking about it ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2021
1 points

Stuttering kicks in and make some days worse whenever 1.you are thinking about some future ambition which has some temporary hurdles to it 2. Thinking about your past worries like broken relationship,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2021
2 points

Journal your anxieties before the speaking situation or just before the day starts. And for each anxiety write down, “Is there any evidence that this anxiety is true?” Likely you will find no evidence...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 11, 2021
8 points

How to calm yourself in a social situation

How to calm yourself in a social situation Anyone else get so stressed you start losing control of your mind and can't find a way to calm yourself down to stutter less during a social situation. It ev...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterDec 11, 2021
10 points

Just sharing my frustration and asking for advice

Just sharing my frustration and asking for advice Hey, guys... I'm glad I found this community I stutter for as long as I remember. I'm female, 28yo, and I have a bad stutter. Well, sometimes nowaday...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterDec 11, 2021
11 points

My stutter and anxiety has gotten worse with age. When I was younger I didn’t give a shit most of the time, but with age it’s gotten worse. Are speech therapists still working during covid? I think it’s time for me try and sort myself out.

My stutter and anxiety has gotten worse with age. When I was younger I didn’t give a shit most of the time, but with age it’s gotten worse. Are speech therapists still working during covid? I think it...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentOnset & Life-Stage Changes
postr/StutterDec 11, 2021
11 points

Hello

Hello Hello guys I'm new here and I'm an adult stutterer (25) but I'm not ashamed of it. I've been challenging my problem from day one and I was able to get through school and university successfully...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterDec 10, 2021
69 points

Cried My Eyes Out

Cried My Eyes Out I had a short presentation for a project at uni today. There were two of us working in collaboration with two other guys, on basically the same topic. The presentation was to be done...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
2 points

That's a pretty big blanket statement. I think most people would agree that people that stutter often have it worse when they're nervous or under pressure. Not always, but anxiousness usually makes it...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
1 points

Can’t anyone choke up at the wrong time? In critical emergency times, most people that stutter, don’t....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 9, 2021
14 points

Worried I’m making other people uncomfortable

Worried I’m making other people uncomfortable I know it sounds strange but does anyone else feel like they’re bothering people with their stutter? I’m living in shared student accommodation at the mom...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
2 points

Yea, I speak Japanese at a basic level and I stutter more in Japanese. I think it’s a mixture of performance anxiety and also the stress that comes with formulating sentences in an unfamiliar language...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
2 points

I think in general that having a police job is very courageous not only because you are putting your life on the line for the safety of a community which I wholeheartedly appreciate but I personally j...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Power Dynamics & IntimidationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
3 points

Congrats! At the end of the day, you got it out of the way and I think it’s a major testament that it’s only our fearful and negative mindsets that pulls us from making that talk when most people prob...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
1 points

I hate when there’s a word I know I have an issue with and it’s coming up in the sentence. I like that idea too, I always try to shake loose and not think too much about it. It’s just drinks! It’s jus...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
1 points

Absolutely. It also goes away almost entirely when I speak a foreign language, pretend to have an accent, or talk to myself. I think a lot of my stutter is anxiety-driven....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilityAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
1 points

I usually stutter a bit less bc you don't have to face the person you are talking to. I still stutter though....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2021
11 points

The sad truth is kids are stupid and cruel. Most of the people laughing are just as insecure as you and probably have zero malice towards you. They are just afraid of being the one being laughed at so...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 8, 2021
26 points

Philosophy; Stuttering; Social Anxiety

Philosophy; Stuttering; Social Anxiety It is a western ideal to be the hero of your story - you could think of this as people who do exposure therapy to the things they are terrified of to become stro...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more