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How I dealt with my stuttering/stammer

How I dealt with my stuttering/stammer I went down the “cure my stammer” rabbit hole a month ago and thought I should share my experience. I haven’t always stuttered growing up but I had a really r...

This is the answer I was looking for. I'd appreciate if you can tell me more either here/in DMs. I've heard about somatic therapy before (a few years ago) when I was looking into approaches to deal ...

I'm the same Can I ask you something personal. How were your parents growing up? Were they authoritative or abusive in any way? Did you grow up with fear of their authority?...

Yeah, it takes years, even decades. Think about it. You spend your entire childhood exposed to chronic trauma. It takes a lot of time and effort to reverse the mindset and to heal. I started my stu...

There's a lot to this. It's more suitable for a DM conversation. Why do some situations trigger a more severe stutter? A lot of its fear based. Even if you no longer actively fear that situation, ...

Your family is unacceptable and doesn’t your mother understand that you might have this stutter due to a family member also having it. It’s dehumanizing what you’re going through but infuriating that ...

Wow that's some bullshit no one should have to put up with yet so many of us seem to have this happen in some setting.  Clearly they don't desire to change and you aren't the problem. Stupidity can ...

As an adult seriously I wish I could go back and tell myself that physical fighting was an option. (This comment got long, I rarely contribute and appreciate the engagement) I was pushed down the st...

Sounds like a crappy unsupportive family. If anyone is the problem it’s your parents for screwing you up with the gift of proper speech. All you can do is suck it up till you can move on. This is n...

Mmmm...probably psychological (you stumble, notice it, become aware of it, give it too much attention and there you are: total mind f*ck). But...32...that's unusual. Maybe for that last reason reach o...

Getting called the r-word by family

Getting called the r-word by family I struggle to speak when I'm feeling nervous which is almost all the time when I'm around them because they latch on anything I say and make fun of it. They insist...

Someone legit unfriended me in real life because I said this about someone who was illegally discriminating against me at work and set me up to get fired.  She was awful to everyone and trying for a...

If you can access psychological help do it. In the USA many states have programs to pay for these services. There is federal assistance as well. I can't immediately think of the program name. Most are...

I have found that many who suffer this had a childhood trauma and abusive household. Did you also have a bad childhood?...

Am having same experience, recently came to the realization. That everyone in the area I live in is an asshole to me(live in ghettos/poor area). Also neurogenic stutter is very misunderstood here...

Book with overcoming Stuttering method... (please dont get mad at me lol)

Book with overcoming Stuttering method... (please dont get mad at me lol) Hi, I came across this book. I know there are dozens of books on stuttering, but this one stood out to me as a guy with a stut...

I have a similar issue. I can be 100% fluent in all casual conversation but if I need to explain something or request something I stutter. I suffered an abusive childhood and I was prevented from voic...

Yes, totally, and with my pets and in general conversation. My stuttering is situational. I only stutter when explaining or trying to request something from someone. Never when placing an order or eve...

Everyone just says speak slowly, think before speaking, stop abruptly while speaking but when I'm alone none of this happens to me i will be giving a speech like as if I'm in a TED talk or something, ...

I'm upset about my stuttering too, I used to stutter slightly, but when I started wanting to be free my stuttering has become more and more severe, it's like a force from beyond that forces us to be u...