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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
7 points

I used to beat myself(metaphorically) up whenever I had a block and didn't force it through at the fear of making a weird sound. I thin that is okay as well. A mindset shift is required. We need to un...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
24 points

The only realistic step is to accept it and let it be. Just communicate how so ever. Stutter, break, write or use sign language, doesn't matter....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
postr/StutterJul 13, 2024
8 points

!3 year old with a stutter

!3 year old with a stutter How to best to help a young teen with a moderate to severe stutter. He is in speech therapy. We see little to no improvement. He doesn't want to practice his exercises at ho...

Parent & CaregiverTherapy & ProfessionalSocial & Relationships
Treatment DecisionsSeeking TherapyUnhelpful Therapy Techniques+2 more
postr/StutterJul 13, 2024
10 points

Please help! I'm really struggling.

Please help! I'm really struggling. I have been stuttering since I was 10 or 11. Now I am 29. I am really struggling with my stutter. it happens in the form of blocks. a block can last even for more ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesPhysical TensionAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
postr/StutterJul 12, 2024
115 points

Shit happens!

Shit happens! Went to Chili’s for dinner tonight and when it was my turn to order, I had a very hard block on ‘chicken.’ The waiter actually laughed at me. I was hot, tired and stressed. It happens. W...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightFrustration & AngerHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
2 points

I hate ordering pizza, yet one place I go to the waiter there is so nice and let me take my time and I can see that he truly cares. Try to forget about it and enjoy your pizza....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
4 points

You’ll get more fluent but you’ll still have a stutter. Having a stutter isn’t the end of the world and there’s so many worse disabilities you can have. Just speak and improve your fluency for your ow...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
3 points

It is a shame when he had to be - of all bad policy decisions he might've taken - to get his campaign derailed due to a stutter - I remember Trump making fun of it in 2016 . I have nothing to do with ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingPublic Awareness / MediaShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
8 points

I totally understand you man, there's nothing like the intense feeling of shame that comes from having to pass off the phone or resort to writing or something. But suicide really isn't the answer. T...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
2 points

💯 well explained! I'm going through the same problems due to the speech blocks making life frustrating and impossible to live....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2024
2 points

This happens to me quite often as well, too. I could be speaking perfectly fine with a coworker and then the phone rings, and an immediate vocal block happens when I try to say hello. It's to the po...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2024
11 points

so true. my life would genuinely be SO much easier if i could just speak fluently. people really take it for granted. i'd be living a really different life to be quite honest if i didn't stutter...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2024
17 points

We go through so much because of our mysterious disorder. Only we stutterers really know how limited our lives of stuttering are. Even just the frustration they will never understand....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2024
7 points

Stuttering is a complex issue that involves fear, anxiety, low confidence, and a lower quality of lifestyle. While speech therapy can help improve your speech, the effects often fade after a few days ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of LifeSeeking Therapy
postr/StutterJul 4, 2024
21 points

How do I have un-awkward conversations

How do I have un-awkward conversations Every single conversation i have has to be awkward obv bcs i stutter. How do i have normal conversations despite stuttering coz am done with this....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterJun 30, 2024
9 points

Stutter

Stutter Has anyone else just wanted to stop talking and using alternate ways to communicate? Talking is just so painful and exhausting and takes so much effort and time. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2024
3 points

It’s like the difference between no WiFi and slow WiFi if you know what I mean. I would much rather be mute and use sign language than stutter through everything....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/stutteringJun 29, 2024
8 points

Advice for stuttering

Advice for stuttering I'm 20 years old and I've had my stutter ever since I was about 9 years old. It wasn't as bad as it is now back when I was a kid, but as of now it's personably unbearable. It's a...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2024
13 points

As I see it, people rarely takes us seriously, they might just show us kindness, but we are really just viewed as slow people, and not a real disability. Its probably because they have a hard time un...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
5 points

Depends on the severity, but most likely yes. The key phrase is "if it significantly impacts your normal life". Mine counts as a disability and my job works with me to accommodate. I Have also had my ...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Access & RightsEmployment & CareerQuality of Life