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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2024
1 points

This is definitely good advice. Once you're comfortable stuttering with people that know you (and know you stutter), the next step is to go out and try it with complete strangers, like employees at a ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2024
1 points

Did you tell her you have a stutter? If not, she probably picked up on it by the end. People don't care as much as we think, I've found....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2024
1 points

Honestly I disagree with this comment aside from the message part.. If OP wants to highlight their stutter go for it but it's not about OP and their stutter.. It's about the Bride and the Groom. As si...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2024
3 points

At least you're surrounded by friends and family who will be understanding. If you're not comfortable joking about it you can briefly just mention it at the start...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2024
4 points

This is the way to go. Get it out first thing. Let everyone know what's going on, and then at least people will know how to react. One could even joke about it "Feel free to take a sip when I get stu...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2024
1 points

One thing that helps is just telling people that you know that you have a stutter so in future they know what to expect...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2024
2 points

Simply tell them that you stutter and you need a little extra time to say what you need to say....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2024
4 points

The more I stuttered openly to people —including baristas, cashiers, telemarketers, colleagues, strangers in general — the more I received positive feedback from them. The key was mentioning that I s...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2024
2 points

I sometimes say that i am anxious or that i stutter ......

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2024
1 points

Hi, I’m a female who stutters but neither of my 2 kids stutter. There is a genetic component sometimes but literally no one else in my extended family stutters either. There is no way to predict it. B...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Genetic & Family FactorsIdentity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
2 points

Agreed! In work and academic environments people are already less likely to listen to women and more likely to interrupt them. Not only have I had to learn how to speak more fluently, but I’ve had to ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
4 points

I just disclose this because as a POC, people might think I have limited language abilities. Also, I need to work with them, how long can I hide it from them.....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
4 points

Also just throwing in that i don’t think it’s essential to disclose a stutter. No worries about this. It should be obvious, unless the people are especially dumb, in which case you wouldn’t want to wo...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
4 points

Yeah, I did and yes, the panel was understanding my condition but still I feel I didn’t do my best and might not be considered for this job. I usually disclose this every single time and mostly peop...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
11 points

Did you disclose your stutter at the start of the interview? Doing this usually helps the panel understand what's going on. I usually start off by saying something along the lines of "I'm sure you can...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2024
-22 points

Yes.. stuttering is not a fun experience for either sexes. I am not dismissing the female experience but I understand why a guy will argue that stuttering is worse for men than women. The "burden" soc...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & RomanceEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2024
5 points

I haven’t but I’ve seen others who stutter get married and have kids. What helps me most is when meeting new people is disclosing my stutter up front and letting the chips fall where they may. I als...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
3 points

I think so. I always request extra time during timed interviews on account of a disability. Only one company asked for a letter of verification from my doctor, which was easy to obtain....

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
3 points

Inform the interviewers at the start that you have a 'medical' condition of stammering, so you take some additional time to explain things. Be confident, focus on your skills more instead of communica...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & CareerAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
2 points

Same age, same position just a different mindset, what I did was practice, practice and practice. I was so much angry on my situation but I don't wanna waste my life regretting so I choosed working fo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more