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commentr/StutterMay 24, 2025
5 points

when I read you are rich, I immediately thought: Have you tried everything with money**?** *(like there are many stutter "solutions" online for a lot of money.. some are scams, others may not be who ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAdvice RequestsResearch & Resources+3 more
postr/StutterMay 24, 2025
16 points

Why Is Hope The Cruelest Part?

Why Is Hope The Cruelest Part? There are no guidelines, no strategies, no real plans. With other disabilities, there's often some pathway to upward mobility, but with stuttering, there isn’t. If I co...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation+1 more
postr/StutterMay 23, 2025
16 points

Socially ashamed

Socially ashamed I’ve had a stuttering problem ever since I was like 3 years old and now I’m 25 and it’s gotten worse. I can speak three languages and my main language and home language was a problem ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
0 points

He reminds me that our stutter absolutely is a wrench in the plans of our careers. His stuttee really affected his presidency negatively. Just a reminder to us all: Yes, you can do whatever you wa...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying+1 more
postr/StutterMay 22, 2025
7 points

melancholy

melancholy I always feel sad, I am already an orphan, single, and I stutter… life has no meaning. Why is life so unfair?...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2025
4 points

My second child’s name will begin with a T and that is hard for me, but honestly, I’m tired of not getting what I want because I’m too afraid of talking. Husband and I love the name and I will not let...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2025
2 points

Regarding the research from 2020. Here is my summary of the recommended interventions from the link you shared. **Interventions**: * Enhance awareness and acceptance of internal states (e.g., anxiet...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringAdvice RequestsFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2025
2 points

Exactly! The real stutter, I guess, is when we say nothing at all—just as you said. If we speak anyway (during this approach-avoidance conflict I would call it?), then the outward disfluencies are hea...

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Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2025
2 points

I used to get migraines during accounting exams or if i was studying that I didn't get for any other subject lol. I can't believe I got my degree in it. I agree... it's hard. Community and support m...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2025
1 points

I'm no longer able to edit my post but after some research about stuttering and it's effects (and one day of bug hunting later), I realised that their stutter had literally nothing to do with my situa...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMay 19, 2025
1 points

Do you guys think its a bad idea to stop talking?

Do you guys think its a bad idea to stop talking? I used to hang out with friends and family. I used to talk to coworkers and try to find good jobs. Long story short nothing ever came of it and I just...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2025
1 points

I am 24M having similar type of thoughts. I have decided to not marry and stay single for life. Acceptance: Till now I haven't able to fully accept my stammer. Why would some other person will accept...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Genetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
3 points

This is sad. Even though we have skills, we are held back due to stuttering....

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2025
3 points

yes, from when i was a little kid up until the last years of high school now, even though i study at uni, i never go out, i rarely speak, so i think about my speech problems less frequently (but when...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterMay 12, 2025
32 points

The cycle of life as a healing stutterer

The cycle of life as a healing stutterer Stage 1: They were born with it or maybe just predisposed From the outside, everything looked normal. But their nervous system was always a little more sensit...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalCycles & RandomnessSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
1 points

I wish. I would be so much further in life. Let the stutter plague my progression (career wise) for too many years. Finally gripped life by the throat almost a year ago now, and haven’t let go since....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
8 points

I am nearing my 25th anniversary in a few months… I had all those “what if” thoughts at some time… For example, I just couldn’t imagine how I was going to say my vows… I put a lot of unnecessary energ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 12, 2025
9 points

Married people

Married people I know there are some people here who got married even while having stutter (and i respect them for that ). My question is did you had thoughts or felt like you don't want to marry (no...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Genetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & AgencyFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
1 points

My parents weren’t mocking but completely minimized and ignored my issue and the pain around it l, and eventually labeled me as “too sensitive”—I knew early on I was completely alone in my stutter. ...

Causes & VariabilityCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalValidation & EmpathyHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
1 points

i know it’s the wrong move, it just comes to mind sometimes. it’s only guided by the belief that the mental destress can no longer proceed if i just stop speaking. I’m not getting any help from soci...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency