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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
5 points

Do you ever disclose it? I’ve been told it’s better to disclose it as a way of clearing tje confusion or mystery but I’m so scared to randomly be like hey I do stutter and I will prob sound crazy rn....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2024
2 points

I definitely experience this myself, it used to crippled me for years and I felt similarly about the nickname, it didn’t seem to help me personally, but what I’ve had a little more success with is int...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersFluency TechniquesAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2024
5 points

26 M. I've noticed that the more I try to hide my stutter from strangers, the worse it gets. However, if I talk to them and I stutter, I disclose it and move on with the conversation. The vast majorit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling OthersBlocks & Stoppages+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
4 points

I usually don't stutter when I first meet people, so I guess I hide it unintentionally, but I always tell them just so they know that I sometimes stutter when I speak to avoid any kind of "jokes" or a...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
20 points

Phone calls! Practicing alone at home does nothing for me because I’m actually an incredible speaker alone lol. I’m a gifted speaker in general (can you imagine how much of a curse stuttering has be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 12, 2024
6 points

Do you allow yourself to stutter around people you just met?

Do you allow yourself to stutter around people you just met? I have a habit of trying to hide my stutter around new people, I often do it without even thinking about it. I'm trying to make an effort t...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
2 points

I don't feel weird about disclosing it, but sometimes people's reactions are weird and it's easier to just not deal with that....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
1 points

I personally really like talking about my stutter. I can’t hide it and in my experience not many people know much about stuttering so I try to be open about it and answer questions if they have any. I...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2024
3 points

I’d guess you have a covert stutter, where you have more blocks than repetitions? You probably avoid/switch words to get through a block? Saying your name and other unavoidable words are *noticeably* ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2024
3 points

Not really, but also if I speak you’ll know I have a stutter, so disclosing it doesn’t really matter given that… it’s obviously I have one if you speak to me for any length of time....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 11, 2024
10 points

Does it feel weird to yall if you disclose your stutter ?

Does it feel weird to yall if you disclose your stutter ? I have mix feelings about this but I don't think disclosing your stuttering is a bad thing but I feel like it makes me different in a bad way....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 11, 2024
12 points

Coworkers referring to their non-existent stutter when you obviously have a stutter

Coworkers referring to their non-existent stutter when you obviously have a stutter Weird question, because I might be overreacting and rambling. How do y’all feel about people referencing their littl...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2024
1 points

Show him the note from your speech therapist as proof of your stutter? Just so that they don’t interpret your ‘apparent stutter’ as a lack of preparation and that it doesn’t count against your final m...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
School & Academic LifeDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2024
1 points

Situations like this may be avoided with an email in advance, disclosing your stuttering. Even better if you include a link to some website explaining stuttering and how to interact with people who st...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
2 points

Would disagree with this. He’s had a stutter his whole life (he’s controlled it, not overcome it) but his ability to communicate has only recently been the target of strong criticism. And, to echo an ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
1 points

Did you tell him beforehand that you have a stutter? If not, did you tell him after and how did he react? Those details matter....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
1 points

This is truly awful, I’m so sorry that was your experience. Honestly it could count as discrimination so definitely speak to HR. I went through a lengthy interview process recently, and I immediately ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
1 points

Unfortunately, most people and companies are ignorant about stuttering. When I started consulting I was still struggling a lot with my stutter. The consultancy I worked for always asked me to write an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2024
2 points

Do they know you stutter? If not make sure that you, in writing, let them know that you stutter and that it will happen but that it will not affect the quality of your work. Always have a paper trail...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2024
1 points

Thanks so much for everyones comments, they have been a great help. I written the speech, just gonna give it a few reads through out loud. I'm still in two minds about mentioning stammer at start. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Preparation & RehearsalDisclosure & Telling Others