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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
1 points

Thanks for the insights! I appreciate it. As I've aged I've gotten more comfortable with stuttering. In part because of the security of marriage (my ex- never minded) and in part because overall cont...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
2 points

like someone when he speaks okay he does not feel anything and I when I stutter I do not feel anything because I know that stuttering must happen, stuttering is complicated, he who has removed stutter...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
3 points

I can believe that would make a difference. But... Have you ever heard that when blind people somehow recover their sight, they have actually higher chances of becoming suicidal? Have you ever notice...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
1 points

Thats a great question. Often times what I've found is people will reflect how your stutter makes YOU feel. Think about how you feel when you stutter, do you see the reflection on her? I used to g...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
1 points

my stuttering is not as terrible as others fortunately, if it stopped to occur not much would change...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
2 points

currently I have long since removed the fear of stuttering from me, and I know that stuttering just has to happen no matter what, I know what actions I do and I am very calm and I see stuttering as a ...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
20 points

I'm one of the people that voted "would stay the same" And I have to say its not because I've had it easier, its because of how I view my stutter now. Your perspective of your stutter is 100% up to ...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
1 points

I used to think the same, why was I the one of all people that stutter, why me, what had I done to deserve this. But then I realized there are people who can't speak, can't see, can't listen. I wonder...

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postr/StutterDec 14, 2020
39 points

if you were awake tomorrow without stuttering and that you would never stutter again, would your life change completely?

if you were awake tomorrow without stuttering and that you would never stutter again, would your life change completely? [View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/kcxsx0)...

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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
8 points

The educational setting is by far the hardest. Wether I was 7 or 27 the anxiety was the same. To feel completely cursed by an affliction that everyone is so comfortable making a joke of...but maybe t...

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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
4 points

Just be you, I try not to see mine as a bad thing I have to be aware of. Obviously I have bad days when it’s depressing and I feel like everyone else says that I don’t show my real self. But you’ll fi...

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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
2 points

\^\^\^\^\^ This. You only think you are losing your true self because you think that others are better than you, but in reality we are responsible for having that inner true self (based on OUR opinion...

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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
11 points

Having been on both sides, just walk in "not wanting it". Let all the anxiety, fear and stress leave your body because you already have a job. Focus on having a good time, a good conversation and l...

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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
1 points

I could help out! Been stuttering for as long as I can remember and am mostly over it (18yrs old)....

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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
8 points

Being that I’m pretty old. I used to view this a hurdle to overcome and was on board with societies depiction that your self worth is based mostly on others opinions of you. This construct is a lie. E...

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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
11 points

Yup same. This is definitely the most heartbreaking part of it tbh; not being able to be your true self....

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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
17 points

Any topic that I’m interested in or passionate about discussing will result in so much stuttering that I don’t converse above basic generic stuff in most settings. This leads to very lopsided interac...

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commentr/StutterDec 12, 2020
2 points

Thank you so much for your advice. I agree, self acceptance is so important. Mom and I have seen this child's confidence grow leaps and bounds and we'll keep up the good fight. I'll have to send so...

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commentr/StutterDec 12, 2020
1 points

Me personally, I hate answering the phone, I rather text people. If I have no choice I’ll do my best but I accepted this a long time ago. Once you do that it might be easier for you. By finally lettin...

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commentr/StutterDec 12, 2020
3 points

This has helped me the most; just stop caring. It’s hard but after years of worrying I had to stop caring. I still do it but it’s a lot less than what it was....

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