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commentr/StutterNov 28, 2025
1 points

The same situation as me đź’Ż this is more of a psychological issue (generalised anxiety disorder or social anxiety disorder) rather than stuttering. Some medication (described by psychiatrists) help a ...

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commentr/StutterNov 28, 2025
11 points

two wrong assumptions he make have bad consequences. wrong assumption #1: stutterers are not finishing sentences because of fear. this toxic assumption leads to people thinking it's ok to talk over ...

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commentr/StutterNov 28, 2025
1 points

Yea I definitely agree on the fact that when you just not think about anything and not even about yourself, you just don't stutter at all ( that's why growing up whenever I had to give my roll call in...

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commentr/StutterNov 28, 2025
27 points

It's more complicated than this video lets on. Stuttering is a physical problem as well as a psychological problem as well as 'confidence' issue. It's a complicated intermixing of several layers of i...

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commentr/StutterNov 28, 2025
2 points

I think that will be your best first step. Learn fluency shaping techniques to build up your confidence speaking in public/social settings. Uni requires lots of presentations, so the sooner you get ...

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commentr/StutterNov 27, 2025
2 points

Working in a social setting I totally get it! I quickly learn who accepts me as I am and who doesn’t, but it does sting to see people and coworkers so easily able to speak. I’m 35, I know I stutter, I...

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commentr/StutterNov 27, 2025
1 points

I have issues ordering food, like many other people do. When I was on campus and visiting particular spots often enough, people would learn what I wanted and understood that the words wouldn't always ...

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commentr/StutterNov 27, 2025
3 points

Thanks for sharing your story. We all know what you’re going through. We have been through it too. If your anxiety is so high in social settings, I think you could benefit from anti anxiety meds and...

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commentr/StutterNov 27, 2025
2 points

I call this *mind reading* and it’s actually debilitating to us stutterers. When we mind read we induce fear, which increases anxiety and adrenaline. All of which exacerbates our stutter. You’re in t...

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commentr/StutterNov 27, 2025
2 points

That’s awesome! Well done! 👍🏼 See, if we are too much in our head, it really debilitates us! Fear is a mind killer!!! I think two things helped you here. Firstly, reading makes us stutter a lo...

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commentr/StutterNov 27, 2025
9 points

I totally understand! I have a marketing presentation in front of the directors and I don’t feel the best about. But I’m reminded about why they’ve hired me anyway which is because I am capable. Y...

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commentr/StutterNov 27, 2025
1 points

Almost in same situation, can’t do much but just hope people don’t think too negative about us. I know it’s real disappointing and questions our self worth too. But keep up your head, you have secured...

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commentr/StutterNov 27, 2025
12 points

You can’t ever know what someone else is thinking and chances are they don’t care nearly as much as you do...

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postr/StutterNov 27, 2025
10 points

How do you handle stuttering at work. Speaking in meetings with over a dozen to two dozen people staring at you talking.

How do you handle stuttering at work. Speaking in meetings with over a dozen to two dozen people staring at you talking. My job is going to involve meetings where everyone is a communication expert. ...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2025
3 points

at first when i was waiting for my turn my heart was beating like crazy and i was doing the breathing techniques but they did nothing and i thought i was going to pass out when i start lol , and then ...

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postr/StutterNov 27, 2025
4 points

Confused if Grad school would help me

Confused if Grad school would help me Honestly I'm quite confused about going to grad school due to my stuttering. Within me that would been a great joy and I believe I can excel in research field but...

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commentr/StutterNov 27, 2025
1 points

Maybe because around strangers you subconsciously try harder at implementing fluency shaping strategies more than around family, where your guard is down? Is there any unresolved tension between your...

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commentr/StutterNov 26, 2025
1 points

Our stutter causes us anxiety, so yes, they are definitely linked, but anxiety doesn’t cause stuttering in itself. Anxiety releases cortisol, adrenaline and dopamine, causing that fight or flight resp...

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commentr/StutterNov 26, 2025
1 points

Interesting. Maybe there is a link between anxiety and overall stuttering. Like when talking to family, friends, and close coworkers I stutter a lot less (but still stutter). When talking with my boss...

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commentr/StutterNov 26, 2025
1 points

Thanks for the context. I too found speech therapy helping DURING sessions, but as soon as I went out into the real world, over time my speech crumbled all over again. There’s so much more social an...

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