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postr/StutterApr 13, 2022
18 points

I am getting a bit discouraged because of my stutter

I am getting a bit discouraged because of my stutter This year I (f 22) started university, I am doing a bachelor in nursing. I have always liked the idea of being a nurse and at 21 I finally told mys...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2022
3 points

I hear you. It's really hard not to let it get to you. I tend to overcompensate and push myself to be the one they have to listen to but I still end up having to teach people how to listen. What I d...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2022
2 points

Same, all the time and they all talk so fast and so much. I'm usually pretty good at being strong and confident but sometimes it gets to me....

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2022
1 points

Hahha literally the same! Same!! Also I realized when i am “tricking” my brain, but in a bad way. For example if dont stutter for like a minute i think like why? And boom i stutter. Also when i think ...

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postr/StutterApr 12, 2022
23 points

Stutter has gotten so bad that I’ve made myself pass out twice now

Stutter has gotten so bad that I’ve made myself pass out twice now My stutter has gotten so bad over the last few weeks that I am knocking myself out. I get stuck on a beginning sound, I make an almos...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2022
2 points

i’m sorry to hear that. i hope you’re better now, my messages are always open if you need someone to talk to. i understand how you feel i’m the same when i’m in public. i sometimes stumble on words an...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2022
2 points

Yes and no. You will be more of an expert on the disability so you it’s easier to navigate speech. But stuttering typing depends on anxiety for most people. Anxiety dosent just stay down it periodical...

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postr/StutterApr 12, 2022
6 points

Everyone around me speaks so fast, it makes my speech worse.

Everyone around me speaks so fast, it makes my speech worse. I want to be comfortable speaking at work and showing presence. However, one of my anxiety/block triggers is that I get lost and overwhelme...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2022
7 points

Experience makes it easier. We all have that fear of stuttering but once you accept it’s just part of you then it becomes easier to throw yourself into social situations. Through experience your anxie...

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postr/StutterApr 12, 2022
2 points

M 18 here, looking for advice

M 18 here, looking for advice Has stuttering for any other teenagers out there severely hindered their ability to talk to the opposite sex? I find it extremely difficult even find the motivation to pu...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2022
1 points

Yess! I have like periods of times when i think “whatever i dont care” but sometimes they are being so rude , it makes me feel so bad about myself and than i cant stop thinking how embarrassed i am:(...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2022
1 points

Don't think about what other people are thinking about you. I usually don’t stress myself because of other person thinking. I had suffered from this situation a lot. I used to practice saying my ...

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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2022
1 points

Honestly, I have forced myself to put thoughts of other people’s perception of my stuttering out of my head for the most part. It’s impossible to completely ignore, but I avoid dwelling on embarrassme...

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postr/StutterApr 11, 2022
24 points

They way people see me

They way people see me Guys, i dont know what the fuck i should do. I went to the doctor’s appointment and first, in the reception when saying my address I stutter the girl got so confused, gave other...

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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2022
1 points

me omg. i think it has something to do with anxiety thats why when ur in an environment that ur comfortable in and/or with people ur close to, u stutter less....

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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2022
1 points

Well kind of yes I was crossing an army check point and I did not have my id card so i planned to tell them that I’m an army brat and i live inside the cantonment(i do this alot lol), but little did ...

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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2022
4 points

I feel like most times when you overthink of what to say or when you fear that you’re going to stutter actually makes you stutter more. It’s a very complicated thing. Sometimes it’s there and sometime...

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postr/StutterApr 10, 2022
4 points

Fear of Words

Fear of Words I’ve had a stutter, specifically blocks, for nearly 5 years and before it’s been random on what words I have a block on/trouble saying. However, recently I’ve been fearing that I couldn’...

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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2022
3 points

Yes. Whenever I’m with people I’m comfortable with, i stutter more. Maybe because i know that’s a safe space and they all know that i stutter....

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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2022
1 points

I was 17 years old and was driving 3 of my friends around on a Saturday night near the mall. I forgot to turn on my headlights as I was exiting a very well lit parking lot and turned onto a very well ...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation