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commentr/StutterMay 8, 2025
3 points

I pretended my stutter wasn’t bad, so I can be more socially active. In my mind I told myself I don’t stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2025
2 points

Yeah I tried that and had a bad experience and since then have always tried to actively hide my stutter, either by not speaking or just using few words. I know that one bad exp shouldn’t dictate how e...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2025
2 points

I've always felt this, but I feel like it's generally quite clear to anyone who stutters when it's put on, at least it is for me. I dealt with it a lot as a kid so I have developed stuttering spidey s...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
3 points

See thing happened to me when I first started public speaking. I thought I was "over it." Really shook my confidence. Later learned it takes one to know one. Ended up meeting the guy a decade later ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
1 points

I think many people are closet stutters, like I have spent my life, trying hard to hide it all cost. Very stressful life to say the least....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
3 points

I can relate, my biggest envy of people in my lifetime has always been how effortless they can talk ....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
11 points

That’s just because we’re so critical of perfect speech that it’s easy to recognize. I’m sure no one else even caught it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
5 points

I stutter at work all the time. Sorry you had that reaction! I always have some go-to jokes I use at work if I'm having a hard day with my stutter. My coworkers have said that my openness to discuss i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentHumor & Community ToneSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
postr/StutterMay 7, 2025
7 points

Feeling desperate right now

Feeling desperate right now Hello fellow stutterers, I'm M19 and I'm actually writing this at a moment of desperation right now because my stutter is getting a hold of me again and I just wanted to ge...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
2 points

I've noticed that the more I try to stop myself from stuttering, the more I end up blocking on almost every word, with a lot of tension in my neck and face. My speech becomes very choppy and strained....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentPhysical TensionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
1 points

Introducing myself is the hardest thing for me to do. If I know for certain that someone is coming over to introduce themselves, the thing that typically helps me is if I take control of the introduct...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
47 points

I did a presentation at a conference that I actually thought went pretty well. I walked away thinking that my speaking was pretty smooth. I didn't recall any blocks. An attendee approached me after ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
2 points

I've tried the method the mentioned when you forget about your stutter, but I can only forget about for so long before it reappears....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
3 points

Go to the restaurant and order something I actually WANT, and not something random I am able to say without stuttering...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
2 points

I often consciously distract myself - or the person I'm talking to - with lots of gestures when speaking, for example. I feel more comfortable talking when I'm moving, like walking, rather than sittin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+1 more
commentr/stutteringMay 7, 2025
1 points

I’m sorry you went through this. I stutter. I’ve stuttered my whole life. Like you I didn’t know where it came from. I only realized I stuttered when I was told I stuttered. Then that’s ALL I heard. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PridePersonal Stories+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2025
5 points

It is extremely difficult blocking on your own name. It happens to me constantly when I am in a professional setting. I try to divert and buy myself time with BS questions like “Have we ever met befor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFeared Words & Names+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2025
7 points

mm nothing i guess haha i live like I dont have a stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shift
postr/StutterMay 6, 2025
11 points

I'm new here

I'm new here Hey, first of all, I think it's very nice that there are so many of us, we must never forget that there are so many people who stutter. My school days were a total nightmare for me, I s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2025
1 points

I feel that, I avoid going to restaurants that don't have these self-ordering displays or I persuade my companion to order for me beforehand...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment