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commentr/StutterMay 19, 2022
1 points

Yeah, with friends, but you have to deal with a lot of other people in life so it's still hard....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Friendships & BelongingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2022
2 points

You are right about it being anxiety. Most people have performance anxiety as well but you can work on it by diving into those situations and not focusing on the outcome. Once you've become acclimated...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2022
5 points

Same here. I am 24 years old and I feel like my stutter is in its worse moment. And by saying that I mean that I am thinking about it almost every day. I am in the same place with the money and career...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMay 19, 2022
16 points

A Method that Might Help

A Method that Might Help Hey Guys, I came across a few techniques that might be very useful for all of you. To give a bit more context - I've stuttered since the age of 2 years old (according to my ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftMindfulness & BreathingAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2022
4 points

I’m the same way. I also caught myself yesterday being so focused on what I was saying, rather than how I was saying it, I forgot I stutter for a few minutes and I didn’t stutter a single time. I have...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMay 19, 2022
4 points

A little confused and fed up

A little confused and fed up So, I have been stuttering all my life. I won’t start that sob story atleast in this group. We all can relate. I am 27 now. I feel my stutter has gotten worse. I took a fe...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilityOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2022
4 points

It’s anticipation I think mixed with anxiety. You have the answer and know it but you get stuck when you try to say it. In casually talking you don’t have enough time to go through those emotions so i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2022
3 points

I experience similar things. This is just my own theory, but I think certain words/ phrases have a long history of fear behind them, and context is key. Maybe in the past you’ve tended to block when s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2022
3 points

I feel you. I once accidently joined a voice chat in the discord. I awkwardly was liked “what’s up guys?” because I didn’t wanna be weird and just leave without saying anything. Immediately noticed th...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2022
3 points

It is possible that their stutter used to be more severe. Personally, my stuttering was most severe in Middle School. My blocks would sometimes prevent me from speaking. A combination of age and good...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationOnset & Life-Stage ChangesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2022
1 points

24m, chemical technology & engineering, graduating in a few weeks if I don't fuck up my bachelor thesis. Stutter was never a problem during my years in university, making friends wasn't an obstacl...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2022
4 points

Most people absolutely will politely wait. Or, bc they simply are not previously informed of why no sound is coming out, they jump in bc they are concerned and want to help. There will probably be ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2022
5 points

I was a transactional lawyer at a big law firm - worked in my office many many hours reading and writing long agreements. I successfully avoided most face to face negotiations and could “pass” during...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2022
3 points

Do you think you could speak better after the first minute. Be prepared to skip words, paragraphs or points if you are stuck on. Also don’t worry about what the people watching think, being worried ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 17, 2022
2 points

I have a class presentation Tuesday and I’m sitting my self :|

I have a class presentation Tuesday and I’m sitting my self :| Ok sooooo I’m fluent like 90% of the time right but when I’m nervous, stressed or when things in my life change I stutter. So I just fin...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating StutteringOnset & Life-Stage Changes+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2022
2 points

Most of us do... It really doesn't work for everyone because as soon as the stutter kicks in everything learned goes out the window and our brain geta in full panic mode....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2022
3 points

It will feel very rewarding when it goes well. Don't take an impromptu phone interview (big mistake I made), tell them you have to reschedule and ask if you should prepare for any technical/role-relat...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2022
3 points

Thanks for this. Im thinking about career change as well and I’m really dreading interviews. Also interviews are in english which is not my mother tongue and for some reason that makes it worse...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2022
2 points

I'm only a 1st year, but I'm majoring in mechanical engineering. So far, my stutter has been as much of a challenge as it was in highschool... People not understanding and making fun of my blocks, tea...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2022
33 points

I literally can't talk to people like a normal human being. I turn red, and sweat, and run out of breath. I'm constantly embarrassed and people think I'm stupid. It's not just bad, it's miserable....

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentSeverity & Fluctuation