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postr/StutterMay 23, 2022
7 points

The Objective Truth

The Objective Truth So I wanted to talk about a specific thing that our mind (or at least mine) often says regarding stuttering. Personally when I feel courageous enough to stutter or say stuff, often...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
3 points

28 male, had severe stutter when I was younger. In school had speech therapy for 10+ years. I don't stutter as much nowadays. When I speak English its fine, but when I try to speak Vietnamese its like...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Seeking TherapyTherapy ExperiencesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
1 points

Yeah, this is so true, it really does a number on your self confidence. I don't think the girl I like is too put off by my stutter, but I still can't talk to her because I get so stressed, and panicke...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
7 points

As a 16F who stutters, this was comforting to read. I have few friends as well due to social anxiety and overall isolation during quarantine. We’ll get there....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
1 points

we broke up, we started fighting a lot because he wouldn’t meet my friends or family due to anxiety. he was really self loathing as well...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
5 points

I’m in the same boat (24 m). I consider myself decent looking, I have a great job and for the most part a pretty “normal” guy. My stutter is manageable but I feel like the trauma I’ve experienced duri...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
1 points

So he broke up with you because of his stutter, or you’re still with him?...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
1 points

I've often felt the same way. I've refused to let my stutter dictate how I live my life and who I share it with but despite that, I still haven't found someone I've felt a connection with. It's frustr...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
7 points

Hey im so sorry to read this… Can you talk about this with your friend so he can help you when you are panicking? I find myself often struggling with anxiety about plans I had made but when I event...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMay 22, 2022
13 points

Need some advice/trying to optimistic

Need some advice/trying to optimistic So tomorrow I have concert in Dublin with a friend of mine. I haven’t been to a concert in years cause of the pandemic and gotta say I’m shitting myself. I’ve nev...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsMeds & Substances
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+2 more
postr/StutterMay 22, 2022
49 points

I feel like I will end up being alone forever

I feel like I will end up being alone forever So I (22 f) have stuttered since I was little. I would consider myself fairly attractive, I definitely am not a stunner but I look nice if I put effort in...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessDating & RomanceFriendships & Belonging+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2022
3 points

The higher the perceived stakes (win or lose), the more stutter. You were already settled into your old job. You weren't life-or-deathing your way through because you'd already established your worth,...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMay 21, 2022
7 points

Why do I go through periods of stuttering?

Why do I go through periods of stuttering? I've been stuttering my whole life, used to go to speech therapy for it. I used to work at a place where I had to say my name all the time and typically did ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterMay 21, 2022
19 points

I can’t say my own name at times

I can’t say my own name at times I find it so frustrating that at times I’m not even able to say my own name . Normally I make up a fake name when I get asked and it’s just so embarrassing especially ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2022
1 points

Full potential is not reality. Although I wish speaking was easy, I’ll never be able to go up to a stranger confidently and become friends with them like I could with perfect speech. Telling stories t...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life+1 more
postr/StutterMay 20, 2022
11 points

Stuttering

Stuttering I’ve stuttered for as long as I can remember and there’s cycles of when I’m ok with my stutter but as a 22 year old, it’s very difficult for me to be ok with it. I feel like it holds me bac...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterMay 19, 2022
50 points

I did my presentation and it went GRATE!

I did my presentation and it went GRATE! Ok so as you can tell from the title I did my presentation and it went really well. Ok well that might be a bit of an exaggeration but it really was not bad at...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2022
6 points

Ordering food is definitely one of the tougher situations lol. It’s definitely stress inducing, especially when you’re sitting at a table with a group of people and don’t want to look like an idiot lm...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2022
3 points

Yeah, it made me feel worse. I'm trying really hard not to have a bad attitude this time because I know that won't help, but I still really don't want to do it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2022
3 points

How is this weird picture mocking legitimately depressed people going to inspire anyone? Stuff like this completely ignores that the most impactful stuttering is *blocks* that are basically mini-pani...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesSadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social Judgment