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commentr/StutterMay 13, 2025
2 points

Wow! I love this, that's exactly how it went for me. The acceptance part was the best, it's like I finally started to realize my true potential, while before I was limiting myself, now I can fully e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2025
1 points

My parents bought an ice cream store when i was 14 (in 1980; am 59m). I had developed a horrible stutter in 3rd grade that had morphed (mostly, though I still stuttered) into a dreadful block by the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2025
10 points

Yes, acceptance will not change the opinions of others but it will change our opinion of ourselves. Of course the mocking will hurt, but the best we can do is speak up for ourselves and say we have a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMay 12, 2025
15 points

The problem with acceptance

The problem with acceptance See the problem with acceptance, it doesn't really solve the problem of stuttering, the habit, the fear, the behaviour, all we have developed because we had stuttering, we ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
3 points

I met my wife in college. I was ashamed/embarassed by my stutter but i also…. loved to talk and crack jokes. Some bad fluency days i would still just stay in my dorm and not see anyone, maybe bing on ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
5 points

It's hard man..for me anyways. But you basically have to have extremely thick skin and truely accept yourself for who you are. If you don't then your not going to be able to handle the awkward, embarr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMay 12, 2025
11 points

How do I start becoming better socially even though I have a stutter?

How do I start becoming better socially even though I have a stutter? So I (M21) Keep letting my stutter ruin my life. I don't try to talk to anybody, I don't ask anybody out on dates, I've never aske...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterMay 12, 2025
12 points

I hate talking

I hate talking My fluency has greatly improved, but I still hate talking. I guess it’s just the uncertainty of what’s going to happen whenever I try to communicate verbally. It’s the worse, for me, o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
1 points

In my experience it can get a lot better (I'm 60 and I've stuttered since age 4), it might not ever fully go away but (and this is huge) it can get to the point where it's barely a problem. I had lo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
0 points

I'm not hiding it, but there's no reason for me to discuss it. If someone asks me to talk about it or my opinion on it, sure, but I'm not going to bring it up unless it's important. To each their ow...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMay 11, 2025
9 points

Has anyone worked as a cashier

Has anyone worked as a cashier I got a job at Kiwi, ill be doing the whole kiwi thing but its the cashier work stressing me. Am even stressed that ill get it in the first place. If you worked at a cas...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
1 points

Just say your name stuttering all the way until it stops hurting or until you stop feeling people care about your stuttering. In my experience, most of the people don't care that I am a stutter and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterMay 10, 2025
23 points

People think I’m an immigrant/foreigner because of my stutter

People think I’m an immigrant/foreigner because of my stutter I’m an American with a stutter, and was born and raised in the US. However, I’m of South Asian ancestry. I’m usually a very quiet person d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterMay 9, 2025
10 points

Does it ever get better?

Does it ever get better? I am 27.. I have a mild and covert stutter. Some days I don’t stutter and some days I do. But every day it’s in my head. I get pleased when I go to bed and haven’t stuttered a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2025
1 points

I always try to put myself in situations where I know I’m not comfortable. For example, speaking up in class or giving oral exams really triggers me, but I know I can’t spend my whole life trying to a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterMay 9, 2025
65 points

You can do more than you think

You can do more than you think I’m a woman with a moderate to severe stutter. I can’t hide it, also I don’t try. I stutter openly in every conversation that I have, and I have a lot of them. I’m gradu...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2025
3 points

No but I do sometimes avoid speaking if I can tell I’m going to stutter but I’m pretty sure that just makes it worse. It’s better to learn to live with it...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMay 9, 2025
20 points

Ever considered going mute?

Ever considered going mute? I can’t be the only one considering this. i’ve had this stutter all my life and it’s ruining it. i can’t even hold up a conversation without feeling uncomfortable or awkwar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2025
2 points

Better to just get it over with. There was no way you were going to hide it 100% of the time. Once you let the cat out of the bag, people will just be more accepting of it. To me it would be a relief ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterMay 8, 2025
45 points

The only thing that's worked for me (and why it can work for you too)

The only thing that's worked for me (and why it can work for you too) I know this has been posted here a few times but I'm going to share it again because it is the MOST IMPORTANT tool I've found and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more