postr/StutterMay 10, 2025

People think I’m an immigrant/foreigner because of my stutter

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People think I’m an immigrant/foreigner because of my stutter I’m an American with a stutter, and was born and raised in the US. However, I’m of South Asian ancestry. I’m usually a very quiet person due to my stutter, and only speak when I have to. Whenever I start to speak, it takes a couple seconds to start speaking, and so many people assume I don’t know English (I don’t have an accent, just a stutter). A couple days ago, a random person asked me for directions to somewhere, and when I started to say ‘I’m not sure’, they quickly said ‘oh no English, welcome to America’. Stuff like this has happened my whole life, does anyone else have similar experiences? Thanks

Themes

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability

Subthemes

Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception

Codes (3)

socializing_one_on_oneperceived_judgmentsocial_pressure