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postr/StutterMay 24, 2025
37 points

Stuttering has completely ruined me

Stuttering has completely ruined me I’m not bragging, i’m not flexing but it will sound this way I’m 20 and people consider me really attractive, my family is rich, i have a beautiful car, i eat what...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterMay 24, 2025
14 points

I hate how misunderstood and misinformed this disorder is and how people treat it, it’s actually aggravating.

I hate how misunderstood and misinformed this disorder is and how people treat it, it’s actually aggravating. Like the title says, I just dislike how much my disorder is misunderstood. I’m sick of con...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterMay 24, 2025
14 points

Don’t identify with your stutter

Don’t identify with your stutter I’ve learned that focusing on it does absolutely nothing. It does all harm and no good. The key is to forget that you stutter. Let yourself talk as freely as you thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 24, 2025
76 points

I beat my stutter in my late 20s

I beat my stutter in my late 20s I had a stutter all my life. I used to post on this subreddit 8-9 years ago. I stopped thinking about it 4-5 years ago and pretty much didn't even realize I used to ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2025
1 points

Tbh he was very successful for a long time, but he's a good example for why hiding a stutter doesn't work very well. And why it's better to be open and honest about how we speak. A lot of the biggest...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2025
2 points

I never ever look people in the eye, I just can’t bring myself to do it. I know I should, but for me it’s a shame thing. Talking for me is so hard, when im talking my mind is working so hard, eye co...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
2 points

Yea, sometimes it helps to acknowledge the elephant in the room before it barrels in and starts knocking over stuff leaving bystanders thinking “Wtf is happening…”. It even relaxes me a bit so I don’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
2 points

I promise you, they don’t care about your stutter nearly as much as you do. In my work I like to make light of my stutter and make jokes about it so they know it’s not something to “look down” at m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHumor & Community Tone+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
6 points

I’m currently an engineer with a severe stutter in the logistics industry and previously work in the defense industry. The best advice I can give is to own your stutter. People are overwhelming unde...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
13 points

Agreed. I've held multiple jobs that require lots of speaking, and some shouting. Most people don't care as much as we tend to think they do....

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2025
2 points

Yes! I personally don’t stutter all that often but I can block really hard in certain situations. It’s always on my mind 24/7 like you mentioned - that I don’t want people to find out and see me strug...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2025
5 points

She's doing her job and getting paid to speak with all kinds of people and will forget the interaction in 15 minutes - so allow yourself to forget it as well. This doesn't matter, this wasn't anyone y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMay 22, 2025
20 points

Does anyone just laugh after realizing how badly you stuttered after a conversation🥲

Does anyone just laugh after realizing how badly you stuttered after a conversation🥲 Just got done with an interview, and now realizing how stupid I sounded/looked😭 everytime I stuttered, it looked ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2025
10 points

Unless told otherwise, ignore it completely. Act like you would with someone who talks fluently - keep eye contact, don't cut them off, don't try to finish their sentence. It can take some patience so...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2025
7 points

In my opinion, Totally ignore it, and don't change your behaviour, because whatever you're doing naturally is making him feel relaxed and comfortable to speak fluently, keep being yourself. I've been ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2025
1 points

Try standing next to them and talk to them so you’re not in their direct line of sight. I get super nervous when I “feel” eyes on me. Might help if you’re both looking or focused at something...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 21, 2025
4 points

I'm not sure if this is the right place but I need some help with school...

I'm not sure if this is the right place but I need some help with school... Sorry if this is too long, I just wanted to fully explain the situation Hi I am 15m, I am autistic and i struggle with an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2025
8 points

This is my attempt to summarize your 6 YT videos. **Summary:** *About the author*: Shane, a general practitioner (GP) from Ireland who has a moderate/mild stutter (he stutters with less worry than b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2025
4 points

I assume nearly every stutterer has problems with their name. Introductions are always hard for me, and I dread them. Especially going around the room and introducing yourself. That is an absolute nig...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesHiding & Concealment+2 more
postr/StutterMay 20, 2025
9 points

New techniques!

New techniques! So I’ve had a pretty bad stutter for as long as I can remember, and my biggest issue is not believing in my self and thinking about it 24/7, leading to super bad anxiety that makes it ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more