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postr/StutterNov 12, 2019
7 points

Is it just me?

Is it just me? No offense to anyone, but I absolutely hate it when people who don't stutter say that they know what you're going through, or that they're afraid to speak in front of people. Honestly,...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
1 points

I dunno man. Out of thousands people who commit suicide everyday vast majority were fluent speakers. Being able to convert your ideas into air vibrations aka sounds does not guarantee a perfect life. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
1 points

I’d like to say I’m a pretty confident person. I don’t give a crap what people say about me or think about me.. I’ve heard that stuttering can come from anxiousness (which I like to think I don’t have...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
5 points

Don't compare yourself to other animals. Human speech production is pretty complex compared to most. Also, speech will always be an effort. We just get used to most of it. Well, except for us stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
2 points

But he does say that he thinks speaking isn’t supposed to be a conscious process. Dogs don’t speak, they don’t form sentences in their minds to speak, because they don’t have the cognitive ability to....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
6 points

He doesn’t need to work on his fluency because he isn’t articulating words with his mouth. He’s just making a noise. I bet when you bang your finger, you still say ouch or make some other noise. Or pe...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainIdentity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2019
2 points

It happens to me too. Home is the place where I stutter most, hands down. It isn't even remotely close. I have a theory for this. They say that adrenaline in the blood actually lowers stuttering. Ha...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological RhythmsIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2019
22 points

Being a stutterer and an F1 fan, this is real deep....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2019
1 points

Yes it has. Since I was 4. But it also gave me some strengths too. I’d much rather be fluent. Check out my post on citalopram drug. It’s worked wonders for me and I stutter maybe 5%of the time but I d...

Meds & SubstancesCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Helpful Med OutcomesSeverity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2019
1 points

Fantastic! Congrats! Goes to show how us stutterers make full use of our right hemisphere and excel at the arts! Well done!...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2019
1 points

Thank you for your comment. I agree with most of what you said. I always accept myself, but I never accept the fact that stuttering will always be part of me! Never, and at least to me this mentali...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2019
1 points

I respectfully disagree with this. If you don’t accept yourself you’ll spend a lot of time feeling like you’re not “normal.” We all have something, even fluent speakers. Our “thing” sucks, but we are ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideValidation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2019
3 points

Yes. Its had a profound effect, really! Please try buying a B-complex of active Bs.BUT we should know, that, even IF we found a cure, we have been stuttering for so many years that our brains probably...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Helpful Med OutcomesAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2019
8 points

I feel you brother... I imagine people at my work think im weird as hell, but I keep speaking anyway. I work in psychiatry but sometimes I feel like I should be there as a patient lol....

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 9, 2019
3 points

Starting a new job on Monday, dreading introducing myself

Starting a new job on Monday, dreading introducing myself So after nearly a year of being unemployed, my stutter has gotten a bit worse. I’m starting a full time job on Monday and the part I’m dreadin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2019
0 points

Accept that you stutter. Only you define it as your "main defining character." People are not sitting around thinking about your stutter. They're thinking about their own issues, fears, bills, family,...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 8, 2019
7 points

True off my chest

True off my chest I was talking to my therapist about something my deepest fears and then wham, I couldn’t breathe, I felt like I was gonna faint. I broke out in a cold sweat and the room started swi...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2019
5 points

I sometimes think of all the confidence I would have without my stutter, and how different my life would be....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2019
3 points

At least you only need to say your name once. Eventually introduced myself to a company director like 6 weeks ago. Had another meeting with him yesterday. Most people had to reintroduce themselves. Go...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2019
1 points

I’m having a lot of these feelings recently. Feeling like just a shadow with no real substance because I can’t express myself the way I want....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception