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commentr/StutterSep 9, 2024
0 points

Just put on your apps that you have a stutter. No shame! Stuttering isn't a sign of weakness or anything. Nor does it define you. It's just a part of you! Sounds like you're awesome looking. Be nice t...

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commentr/StutterSep 9, 2024
2 points

Congrats, what is the novel? Also it’s okay if you stutter in the interview, it’s your voice and you have the right to use it ❤️...

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commentr/StutterSep 9, 2024
0 points

Be upfront , that should be in the first handful of things about yourself you reveal...not THE FIRST, but I find if someone is expecting it they won't think you're on crack or something. If you are yo...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2024
1 points

When I used dating apps years ago I would just tell girls that I stuttered right off the bat..granted they didn't know what to expect and said it's no big deal but the ones that are really attracted t...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2024
17 points

Nah mate it's not, if anything it's filtering out the bad ones. Most girls won't mind it and will definitely be more interested in your looks and sense of humour etc. My wife who I dated for 7 years ...

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
1 points

I think trying to meet someone on a bus without a stutter could be awkward. Also, hey, you tried. It might be easier to online date through the apps and put in there that you have a stutter. Just be u...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
1 points

What helps me, especially when having interviews, is that I say them at the beginning of the conversation that I stutter and ask them for patience. All of a sudden I almost do not stutter at all....

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
8 points

hi there! i have a severe stutter too (30% fluency on avg) and it gets really exacerbated whenever i’m put on the spot or in a position where its like “all eyes are on me”, even if i’m comfortable wit...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
25 points

Sorry that this happened to you. The fact you even tried is an achievement in itself. It might be worth you emailing the professor to discuss and disclose your speech impediment. Don’t let this get yo...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
1 points

Do you disclose your stuttering in advance? If not, email them before the interview and let them know that you stutter; then remind them at the start of the interview. This will help relax you, so you...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
0 points

Did you disclose that you have a stutter? It always helps me....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
1 points

Have you ever tried disclosure, ie. telling the interviewers that you have a stammer upfront? I find it really difficult (ironically because I often struggle to say the word 'stammer'), but when I hav...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
1 points

Own your stutter. Tell everyone up front that you have a stutter and it might take a little bit longer than expected....yes, even if they know you stutter. I still do this with my workcenter (only 13 ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
1 points

I'm 30 years old. This is what I would suggest to my younger-self in school: 1. Practice in front of the mirror. This should be the only thing in your mind until the presentation is finished. Eithe...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
8 points

Just tell them I have stuttering and this is how I talk I'm talking measures to control this so bare with me I'm academically strong so this won't be a big issue I can manage...

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commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
8 points

Hey mate, I guarantee you the interviewer didn't think you blew it. Stuttering is not a bad thing and is something that makes you unique. Next time, I would advise that you disclose your stutter at...

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commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
4 points

Hey, no need to feel like you can't disclose your stutter. I have a video interview in two days and the first thing I did when they reached out was let them know about my stutter. They didn't seem to ...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
5 points

It's totally OK to tell them you stutter, even if it is client facing. It's a part of you and you aren't doing anything wrong. When I interview I tell them right at the beginning that I stutter. It te...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
3 points

I feel the same way sometimes I hype myself up for something big that requires me to speak just to fail it. all that matters is that you have someone there for you that understands your situation. Whe...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
13 points

It's happened to me a couple of times before too. The interview that led to the job - I stuttered in it too. The deciding factor was I had the skills and qualifications to get that job. They didn't ...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others