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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

You're the one attacking people by calling them delusional just because they're able to find peace in what they have been dealt. Life is not perfect, you don't have to be, so it's not that people "pre...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

What? He didn't answer a single question I asked. I asked him does he consider stuttering a disability and he started talking about people with facial disfigurements and how mentally strong they are. ...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
3 points

I’m mostly an ex-stutterer. Still a few blocks from time to time but nothing major. I got here through 30 years of forcing myself to speak in public. The more I did it, the less I felt defined by my s...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

I am lost. What does this have to do with anything we were talking about? You cant just change the subject when you don't know the answer. Like I asked you before. If you think stuttering is not an is...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

You can learn to move away from bitterness and soul destroying cynicism by examining how people with serious facial disfigurements adapt: "Despite the myriad challenges, many individuals with facial ...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
6 points

The problem isn’t just the stutter itself. It’s the side effects that come with it. Like you said, if it was *just* the stuttering, then accepting it would be the best option. Idc if it’s considered a...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

You didn't answer my question. I will answer yours tho since I don't evade questions. I am relatively happy right now and I have a severe stutter. I am probably feeling better now than I have in a whi...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
0 points

If your stutter disappeared tomorrow, I 100% guarantee you would find something else to blame for your unhappiness. Stuttering is not the issue....

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
-1 points

Stuttering is not a issue? So you believe its not a disability? You also said you wouldn't cure it. So what is it then?...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

How is your 'poor me' attitude solving your problems or making your life better in any way? And why are there so many stutterers choosing to live a happy and fulfilling life compared to stutterers who...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

>In my experience, people are attracted to those who believe in themselves. They don't see someone struggling with their stutter, they see someone overcoming it and that is an attractive quality. I a...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
8 points

There is no cure. There are ways to adapt to stuttering so that you feel you stutter less and there are also tools that may or may not help you reduce how much you stutter, but there is no cure. Anyon...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

I have never seen a post here of someone saying suicide is a good thing and promoting it here. I have seen people saying dumb shit like "stuttering is a gift", " I am glad I have a stutter and I would...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

As a speech pathologist I understand the dynamics of speech as it relates to the relationship between breathing and speech. The theory basically states that speech requires a steady and easy airflow t...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

The \*only way\* to find happiness is to work with what you've got and adapt. There are people with far, far worse disabilities than stuttering who lead happy lives because they've accepted their situ...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

>The fact is you assume people haven't went to therapy with no evidence. Look at the stats on severe stuttering and success of speech therapy. I am not assuming, I am referencing the numerous posts i...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
0 points

I literally said men should respect women's choices and vice versa. You were just hallucinating. If you were stopped being so edgy at some point you could realize I wasn't opposing you....

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
0 points

That's pretty pointless thing to say since the person called stuttering an aesthetic instead of a neurological disability. It's still not a character flaw. \>Height is a trait, and stuttering is a d...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / NeurodiversityStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
0 points

\>women stutters exist too What's your actual fucking point even? My point is that regardless of what it is, your potential partner have the right to prefer someone without certain disabilities or w...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
2 points

From what you described in the post, I think that man went well. But important to remember that one size does not fit all. I just like different speech therapy techniques does not work for every singl...

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