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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
1 points

I wasn't able to develop a dating life because of it. I never heard a "no" or a "yes" from a girl, even tho I perceive some looks sometimes, I am too afraid to enter any situation where I could stutte...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
2 points

It's not necessarily eye contact specifically, and my point about being engaged and attentive might be clearer if I talk about what not to do. When I stutter I sometimes see coworkers shuffle their p...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
1 points

Thank you so much! The eye contact will be a bit of a struggle for me, even with people who speak fluently. I usually start off with eye contact but my eyes just wander off after a few seconds. But I...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
3 points

Yea I’ve been like trying to but on phone calls it gets worse. And it sucks cause sometimes the person on the other end thinks like the connection is bad and it makes me tense up even more....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/StutterOct 25, 2022
7 points

Tips on not stuttering? Supplements to help calm me down?

Tips on not stuttering? Supplements to help calm me down? Hey guys. I’m 17 male and I stuttering a lot. It gets bad when I’m tense and I don’t stutter when I don’t think about what I’m going to say ne...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightSituational Variability+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
1 points

Stuttering has no connection with your tongue...it's just an illusion in your mind that you created by thinking yourself that i stammer.. all you have to do is changing the perspective of your mindset...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
1 points

I know exactly how you feel I gave a mini presentation and even though it’s only four of us I don’t like people watching and listening to me stutter but it is what it is what can you do lol. I hate th...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterOct 24, 2022
51 points

ive just finished a presentation and i stuttered

ive just finished a presentation and i stuttered guess you all know what it feels like, you do your best not to stutter, try different methods but yet you still stutter. thats what happened. the thoug...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & AngerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2022
1 points

>What happens when you try them? Indeed, I agree with your message: * disclosure * eye contact * facing fears Before I was aware of your posts, I was already doing this, because I believe this i...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2022
3 points

Thank you for these tips, I’ve been going out to food places that ask for my name to practice and I’ll keep these in mind. I definitely do have a fight or flight response to people asking my name b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2022
1 points

I think its because of my fear of being judged. I already mentioned on our first day that I have some speech problem but I didn’t specify it, but my friend on the presentation knew about my stutter an...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
1 points

"In the example you gave of going back to 'r' , lets call that an "escape repetition". Can you see how it's different from what happens at 5:30?" This is very true, repetitions from stutterers and no...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
1 points

This stutter [research](https://journals.copmadrid.org/clysa/art/clysa2021a1) states that mindfulness has a positive effective on stuttering: * reducing stuttering * reducing anxiety...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
2 points

Just take it as it is. You can do nothing about it, breath and smile (from inside) And I hope these weren’t your friends, never do a presentation with a friend...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
2 points

Like many people who stutter, she doesn't have a lot of confidence in herself. I would like to give her positive energy in that aspect....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
3 points

Anxiety reduction in general. My blocks are tension based and the anticipation of the block is the cause of the block. I just try to do it and not care about (fake it till you make it) so I have less...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 21, 2022
60 points

It finally happened.

It finally happened. I fucked up my part on our group’s presentation. I can feel my classmates and group mates judging me, I was having terrible blocks. Man I feel bad, I think I’m the reason why we d...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating StutteringBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
10 points

Ooh yes I could see that! His pauses which could indicate word switching perhaps, lack of eye contact, and not elaborating his answers is eerily similar to what I do when I'm uncomfortable or anxious ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2022
6 points

Just wanted to tell you I know how that moment feels. Sheer terror. I bet your coworkers aren't thinking about it as much as you may believe. Keep working on it!...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 20, 2022
21 points

Stuttering during my work meeting

Stuttering during my work meeting I just stuttered so bad in my work meeting I couldn’t finish the conversation. My chest tightened up and I felt like I couldn’t breath. This has been a problem my who...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension