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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2022
6 points

Basically, you’re scared of getting judged by the other person - and if you are judged you could be rejected. On your own, you don’t have that issue....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterNov 1, 2022
22 points

Do you guys also get the “fight or flight” feeling of panic whenever you *think* about a word/occasion you’d stutter on?

Do you guys also get the “fight or flight” feeling of panic whenever you *think* about a word/occasion you’d stutter on? ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 1, 2022
5 points

Why do I stammer in front of people only?

Why do I stammer in front of people only? Hi guys, I am suffering from stammering. But I only stammer when I was talking to someone either physically or on a call. I don't stammer at all when I am alo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringSituational Variability+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2022
3 points

All those things you mentioned about your stutter are actually very very common! I bet you even avoid eye contact. If you are like most of us here, the issue is probably *only* that anticipatory fea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2022
3 points

i haven’t gone too in depth, but my stutter is weird. i’ll just use substitute words, and i know i’m about to stutter when i lose my memory. when that happens, i tend to talk faster, thinking it’ll pu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringCycles & Randomness+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2022
3 points

I’m proud of who I am and want people to know my name but I stutter on my name all the time, I think it’s just that introducing oneself is something most of us get kind of anxious about first impressi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2022
1 points

I recently went to a doctor for my anxiety, brought on by stuttering or the thought of having to talk, etc. I can say that the anti anxiety meds really do help. Even if I stutter that gut wrenching fe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2022
4 points

Anti-depressants and anti-anxiety meds can help to alleviate distressing emotions for a while but they won't tackle the root causes. That takes a lot of effort, courage, introspection and some form of...

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2022
3 points

My experience with antianxiety meds is that they generally do numb me out to an extent and take some of the wildness out of life. Fluvoxamine has worked the best for me and I've taken it for a long ti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2022
2 points

I'd say the diagram is perfectly correct, as the anxieties and lack of confidence give justification for my mind to put up a barrier/be on high alert. ​ Once again, all very accurate ana...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2022
6 points

I have the same problem.. I stutter hardcore and I have those wild tics too 😂 My friends give me hell about it.. They joke and laugh behind my back and in my face. I laugh too because the tics re...

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commentr/StutterOct 30, 2022
2 points

I’m 19 and a sophomore in college and as it is I’m a pretty social guy and I like to tell people I’m close to that I’d probably be the most talkative person alive if I didn’t have a stutter. The last ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2022
3 points

My situation is similar to this. I work as a customer representative (Call center) and some days things are fine and other days I just want to quit and cry myself to sleep. It's so annoying when the s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2022
2 points

I'm the exact same. Rejection terrifies me, not just career-wise, but romantically and when it comes to meeting people in general. I think it's down to my serious abandonment issues stemming from a ba...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2022
2 points

I"m just writing a new message bc my first response was full of confusing edits. I have literally done the agreement-fist when reading lots of your comments because I think you get right to the core ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2022
1 points

The NSA don't suggest fluency shaping. And stuttering is not rooted in anxiety. If it were half the population would stutter. Anxiety is created from the fear of stuttering, not the other way around. ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2022
0 points

I have analyzed your stutter problem in this [PDF file](https://drive.google.com/file/d/16-apteCpvOoxnZYSvKJUfExDj7LrBrOm/view?usp=sharing). Did I get it correctly? Assuming we are going from the dia...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2022
2 points

Very very very good speculation, this is something I've been thinking about intently since my stutter has gotten bad. ​ I have a problem with moving my tongue/mouth during a block. As for...

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Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2022
2 points

I agree completely also in college and had to take a break due to me stuttering in front of the whole class for my final presentation. Just know you’re not alone and many people deal with these same s...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterOct 30, 2022
18 points

Sometimes I lose hope

Sometimes I lose hope I'm 18(m) and in college.Ever since I started Ive promised myself that'll "cure" my stutter by being more social and all that. But there r some days where(either because I'm more...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation